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July 24 2006

Western girls hire black studs in Jamaica

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Western girls can't get laid at home so they're going to the Caribbean for paid sex with black studs. The Guardian's Lorna Martin reports from Jamaica:

Negril beach is the destination of choice for an increasing number of British female sex tourists. An estimated 80,000 single women, from teenagers to grandmothers, flock to the island every year and use the services of around 200 men known as 'rent a dreads', 'rastitutes' or 'the Foreign Service' who make this resort their headquarters.

That's 400 each!

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A live reggae band is on stage and the sandy dance floor is bustling with dreadlocks and dope smokers. Pale, plump, clumsy women do their best not to look ridiculous next to the raw, natural and explicit moves of the Jamaicans.

Most Western women are a bit of an embarrassment but they always come out with the same delusional line about why Western men don't find them attractive.

Back home in the West, many strong-minded, feisty women tend to intimidate guys.

Why do they always say this? It's total bollocks. I've never once heard a man complain that farang girls are too strong and feisty. Men usually say that they're fat, selfish, charmless, smug, dissatisfied, neurotic, spoilt, chauvinistic and completely blind to their own shortcomings - and the self-delusion doesn't stop there:

Payment is rarely mentioned because this would shatter the illusion that she is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen and he has fallen desperately in love with her. Instead, after charming the women and offering to be their guide, the gigolos set about, sometimes in subtle ways, extracting as much money as possible.

And then, of course, there's the inevitable hypocrisy:

Like many of the women here, Jackie is offended by any suggestion that she is merely a sex tourist and that Andrew is, in effect, a prostitute.

But what kind of farang woman would employ a male prostitute? Playwright Tanika Gupta, spent two weeks in Jamaica researching the subject:

The 'Ibiza-type' are young, frisky and just looking for a good time. 'Many of them were sexy, beautiful, young and slim,' says Gupta. 'But because they didn't have that much money, the guys weren't interested.' The second group are in their mid- to late-30s and desperate for a baby, perhaps a cute brown one. She saw many simply looking for love, and finally what she called the 'grandmother-type': white-haired, sixty-something women walking along the beach hand in hand with fit, handsome young men.

This seems to cover just about every flavour of farang woman.

Lorna Martin then poses the key question:

What makes it different from male sex tourism, which is normally seen as sleazy and abhorrent?

It's a good question but, unfortunately, Lorna neglects to pose it to her 'strong and feisty' female interviewees (or perhaps she did but the answers were too hypocritical to print).

But what do the hard-working Jamaican fellas think?

When I ask Leroy what he does if he's not attracted to a woman, he responds matter of factly: 'Close my eyes and pretend it's Beyonc?©.'

Original article

Sex, sand and sugar mummies in a Caribbean beach fantasy

(Spotted by Ian)

[Posted to Travel by David]

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Readers' comments

meister says:

"Jackie said Andrew raised the money issue the morning after they had first slept together. He told her he could not afford to pay his rent and needed to get his car repaired. She has been sending cash to him every month ever since."

No mention of a buffalo?

empress dowager says:

same shit, different toilet.

Dana says:

Well . . . fair is fair: One thing not mentioned here is that these Caribbean black males have adonis bodies. Can't blame the women for being attracted to pictures of maleness.

Sayyed Hassan Nasrallah says:

Should be wearing burkhas the lot of 'em!

jz says:

wahahahaahahahah. hilarious. those gnarley white amerikkkan hens have come home to roost.

Landmark Larry says:

I just couldn't knob a fat woman, not even for money. I would genuinely sooner have a wank.

Coldweasel Quintus says:

I'm so glad you put this on your site. I was reading it while lying on the sofa in my London pad on Sunday morning, thinking 'this would be perfect for Mangosauce.'

Also of interest: Heading South, the new movie starring Charlotte Rampling, exploring the intriguing phenomenon of white women heading to Haiti for happy times with the sons of the Tonton Macoutes.

I'm all for white womens' rights to go to sunny climes and get fucked by dreadlocked dudes desperate for cash. The more they do it, the less whingeing we'll hear about our own leisure choices.

Eventually, with the coming growth of long-haul budget airlines and shorter working weeks, I envisage a society where nobody in England fucks each other at all. Every Thursday night, the women can jet off to various parts of the Caribbean, while the men head East with identical motives in mind; everybody returning happily to clock in on Monday morning. Beats having to face the pasty skanks over Weetabix five mornings a week.

Andrew says:

With Women they call it 'Romance Travel', while for men they call it 'Sex Tourism'.....sigh...

jz says:

yeah landmark larry,
i can't understand how a guy can fuck a fat ugly chick. how can you physically get it up?

Andrew Fox-Russell says:

I used to live in the Virgin Islands, and saw the whole female sex tourism first hand. It really wasn't any different to what goes in in Thailand, or a thousand other places for that matter. As a result, I barely got a root in the year I lived there! It got that bad I ended up moving back to Australia and married a bar girl....

phil H says:

Bluddy perfect! Now Joan the Groan can go on holiday to Jamaica and Merv the Perv gets to go back to Pattaya.

See "Sodom & Gommorrah in Pattaya".

No problem is too big to be solved instantly in Mango Sauce. David, you should open up an Agony Aunt section I could imagine it being a scream.

empress dowager says:

or maybe the lot of you can get together and screw each other giving other people of different races a rest from your exotic fetishism. if not, who's going to spawn the new breed of whiney, self-deluded men and women?

ty says:

Lol

Funny how lots of you men laugh and condem women for doing what you most probably do yourself while flocking to thailand bar-girl territory in droves. Men say western women are fat, neurotic and self-delusional? The same applies to western men dear boy, along with greedy and vain.

Same as with you men, if the male prostitutes are offering their services and earn money while helping women live out their sexuality (probably bc their husbands back home are too fat and nasty) then thats just fair.

Luckily as a woman its not difficult to find a man who will pleasure you, and that for free, theres no need to pay for sex until your old and ugly, same as with you men.

And since so few men ever get it right, may i say once again, the clit is at the top, middle. Rub it for a whole while, and more magic will happen.

Combover says:

Point made ty, but I for one shall continue to spend more time on small fragrant little honey pot clits than big fishy growlers.

Not old. Not fat. Not even ugly. Just my choice.

brendan says:

the article says about 80,000 white women go to jamaica every year for sex. i doubt this very much, cause when i was at Nigril, i saw less than 10 white women with a black guy, on any given night.
it was not as widespread as the article intimated. not as widespread as farang guys with thai girls, in thailand. that is for sure.

bangkokram says:

Ty says

"Funny how lots of you men laugh and condem women for doing what you most probably do yourself while flocking to thailand bar-girl territory in droves."

Reading all the posts above not one of them is condemming western women for paying to have sex on Jamaica.

Quite the opposite, all the posts seem to be of the opinion "Live and let live".

Also

"And since so few men ever get it right, may i say once again, the clit is at the top, middle. Rub it for a whole while, and more magic will happen."

Combover, (The post above) says it all!

Bobby says:

'Jamaica?'

'No... It was her choice.'

Grunt says:

The common knee-jerk of the western female regarding the subject of western men in the LOS, or other feminist-free locales, seems to default to frothy mouthed accusations of sex slavery and child prostitution.

Yet should any logician mention the goings-on in Jamaca, we would illicit little more then a blank stare, dialted pupils, slack jaw, and some quick change-the-subject stammering.

Hmm, now whats the term Im grasping for here...ah yes...

Cognitive Dissonance.

gunther says:

forget Jamaica. on koh phangan a lot of farang girls are looking for thai guys for a one night fu*k.

phil H says:

Seems to me a hell of a lot of the Whisky Tangos out there don't like us because we don't like them.

They should be grateful otherwise they'd have to fight off more fat bastards in the Butlins night clubs than they do now.

Listen up girls, we don't like you and if, because of that, you don't like us then what is the problem? The perfect relationship, a kind of negative symbioticism if there is such a word.

fem2u says:

Lorna Martin then poses the key question:

"What makes it different from male sex tourism, which is normally seen as sleazy and abhorrent?"

The difference is women sex tourists prefer their "gigolos" of age and manly while male sex tourists prefer their "prostitutes" to be VERY young!!!

bangkokram says:

So fem2u, So male sex tourists going with women of "age and womanly" is quite exceptable to you?

Kitten says:

It's sorry to see you put such a bitter spin on an interesting article,

Let's turn the tables a tad?

Western blokes can't get laid at home so they're going to BKK for cheap sex with buck-toothed bar girls.

Most Western men are a bit of an embarrassment but they always come out with the same delusional line about why normal women don't find them attractive.

"Back home women are put off by my lack of social skills, tendecy towards breathing heavily and receding hairline. Here, women are so self-loathing they just want me to father their meal ticket, errr half white kid, FOR FREE!"

Blackcock says:

Every white woman over 30, who after wasting her twenties trying to find sexual pleasure and love with tired-ass white men instictively knows that her only hope is to find a hung black who will love and adore her and "lay the pipe" in the size and quantity that she (as a white goddess) deserves! Ha ha too bad boys!!! (Don't forget, guys there's plenty of us blacks in the UK getting your women on the side too, she doesn't need to go to Jamaica!!)

Coldweasel Quintus says:

Blackcock's piece (for want of a better word) reminded me of an excellent post at xiaxue.blogspot.com, the (often very witty) blog of a Singaporean girl with a white boyfriend.

Her theory was that for overall sexual happiness, all Asian girls should have white boyfriends, and all white women should be paired with black partners.

She expressed indifference to the fact that black women and Asian men would be left out. But if we could just somehow pair every Oriental man with an African or Caribbean female, we would be left with an Escher-like structure of global sexual satisfaction.

alec says:

there's an article in the sunday miror today . Funny how when its women paying for sex its always written in a light hearted way as in they dont give the men money but gifts so its not prostitution yeah right, but when its men in asia the words dirty old and pervert or fat balding are used . I can only presume its women that write these articles .

TANAI KWAI says:

Coldweasel:

Brilliant. But while I am sure they must exist, I have never personally known of (or even witnessed) an Asian man and a woman of African extraction together as a couple -- neither in a cafe, wedding, porn film, nor in any other setting. Is there perhaps a famous pairing of this kind I am failing to note?

In Asia, anyway, I cannot think of a female racial variety that would be less aligned with the stereotype of what Asian men are supposedly seeking than a black woman. One need only look to the famously diverse fishbowls of Macau, which cater almost exclusively to wealthy Asians, and note the conspicuous absence of any sisters. Poor bastards don't know what they're missing.

TK

Jack Howitzer says:

The Mirror article is here: http://tinyurl.com/ha3t2

Johnny says:

I used to go out with a young half Jamacian half English lady and she was absolutely gorgeous. I was too young to realise how good I had it with her. She didn't know her father, unfortunately, her "upper class" mum has now moved back to England, after spending years seemingly in exile in Australia. I lost contact with her. One shallow joy was walking with her in public, it gave me alot of confidence, because for some reason I assumed people would think that I had a huge dick. I still love her in my heart. I'm kicking myself now thinking about letting her go, she was cool. I tried to get in contact by knocking on her door, one day a young fella come out who looked like a smaller and younger version of me and said she doesn't live there anymore, I had a feeling she was inside the house at the time.

I read the post from the Singaporean girl about measuring dick size :
http://xiaxue.blogspot.com/2004/04/hello-everybody-its-very-important-day.html
I knew I liked Chinese girls with small hands for a reason.

Durga_is_my_homey says:

“Why do they always say this? It's total bollocks. I've never once heard a man complain that farang girls are too strong and feisty.”

Why WOULD they tell you that though? I live in farangland; I’ve had to deal with plenty of mutual guy friends who explained to me in secret that the “real reason” a guy friend of our’s didn’t want a girl he desired at the beginning was because she wouldn’t always agree with him, giggle, and be impressed by everything he says. THOSE types of guys would never tell another guy that.

“Men usually say that they're fat, selfish, charmless, smug, dissatisfied, neurotic, spoilt, chauvinistic and completely blind to their own shortcomings”

Funny, ‘cause when a certain type of guy says he doesn’t want farang lady because she “is only after money” and is “fat", I hear from the farang lady that “he thought he could buy me with money instead of putting any effort into his looks, behavior, and seeing me as anything but a fuck-toy maid” and is glad she doesn’t have to deal with him and be polite about it anymore.

“Brilliant. But while I am sure they must exist, I have never personally known of (or even witnessed) an Asian man and a woman of African extraction together as a couple -- neither in a cafe, wedding, porn film, nor in any other setting. Is there perhaps a famous pairing of this kind I am failing to note?”

Where I live, you see it. Especially Korean men with black women or Korean men with white women, sometimes Japanese men. I admit I can't say for SEAsian men, but they aren'tas big of a group in my area. I don’t know of anybody famous, either. Keanu Reeves is part Asian, so if he ever dates a black woman…

“And since so few men ever get it right, may i say once again, the clit is at the top, middle. Rub it for a whole while, and more magic will happen.”

Hahaha! A-men, ty. To everything.

Mac says:

See "10 Most Prevalent Interracial Relationships" at http://fiyastarter.com/fs-pages/fs-socgen-interrelation10.html

Mac says:

Donald's girlfriend, Wendy, convinced him that he could prove he was hers forever by having her name tattooed along the length of his dick. And so he did.

While taking a slash in a bar one night, he sees a strapping, muscular black guy at the next urinal and, stealing a glance at the guy's tool, is alarmed to catch sight of the letters W and E at its base.

"I'm sorry," he says, "but I notice you have something tattoed on your dick; would you mind telling me what it says?"

"What, you some kind of faggot, man? Why you be looking at my dick?"

"No, no, that's not it at all. But it's really important to me to know for personal reasons."

"Yeah, this be personal alright. Well, if I tell you, you promise to leave me alone then, yeah?"

"I promise," says Donald.

"OK then, but you're not going to like it," replies the Rasta man.

"So then it says WENDY?" says Donald, his heart in his throat.

"Wendy? What is that shit? Hell, no, it says WELCOME TO JAMAICA - HAVE A NICE DAY!"

daniel says:

TY i agree with you, girls should be able to get away and fuck some nice chap for money because they want to get away from ugly fat baldies or guys with no charisma or charm.
you say western women are fat, neurotic and self-delusional? now thats not very nice but the fact of the matter is if they were just a little bit nicer in their personalities them maybe the nice guys wouldnt travel so often to get away from them. apart from the fact know matter how ugly you are girls always think your gods gift to brad or tom.

get real

whitecock says:

hey BLACKCOCK before my english girlfriend said my cock was too big, my thai girlfriend now says im soooo big, i want to go to japan soon, do you think my long fat white cock can get any bigger.

ps. you can fuck all the ugly fat white dogs in the uk you like, rather you than me pal. anyway their holes are too big anyway, due to the size of my cock.

daniel says:

yes that is it white men with asian girls, asian men with african and afro-carribean girls, and the african and afro-carribean man can keep the white bitches.
TY...............
you push out your tounge and caress the tip with it then later you slowly push your mouth down the shaft from top to bottom and then back again, if you wish you can ask beforehand not to cum in your mouth.

rufus says:

hey whitecock,

just remember, those thai and japanese girls have probably fucked a lot of thai and jap guys, before you got to them.

have a nice day.

Andy says:

My Internet cock makes John Holmes' tool look like a Chinese mouse.

whitecock says:

isnt that great news BLACKCOCK because then they will even so much more pleased to see me.

enjoy the uk.............

Gavin says:

Heee heee...well all I can say is it is true true true and applies in many other islands in the Carib. I was visiting Tobago last year with me girlfriend, a native Tobagoan, and on the first night I was approached by a group of English girls who asked me to introduce them to my girlfriend who they then used as a go-between with the locals to score a posse of horse hung locals to look after their needs while on their Hen Party Holiday...yes they paid the bills and didn't blink an eye-lid and said they intended to get some decent sex between husbands back in London....true!

I laughed, as it just seemed to balance the books a little with all the boys off doing their trips to Kiev for some Slavic beauties and to SE Asia for what is on offer to guys in this part of the world. All in all, it seems that many Europeans just don't like themselves or their partners...a bit sad really but then variety is the spice of life...

blackdeadbeatdad says:

my neighbors ex-wife caught HIV from jamaica. they are both black by the way. even though its mostly fat, ugly, white, middle-aged women, there are a few black ones that go there for the "love and attention" from the rent-a-dreads.

Anonymous says:

Whoa! Some of your arguments are insane and I hope a form of some cynical humor! You can't just pair races up af:wm, bf:am, etc. People should date whoever and if people feel the need to perserve their culture...

carline grant says:

This is a very interesting topic. I know that white women seem to think that we black women don't appreciate our black and that they can do a better job of it. But as a black women I refuse to let my man do certain thing to me. He will not verball abuse me, or hit me either. I would never be willing to sleep with another man so my man can watch and join in homosexual behavour with other females in order to please and keep him. I am willing to make money by most means necessary but not stripping or prostitution. No man is going to put his penis in my ass and then into my mouth. Also I will not stand for any foolishness like you can go see and sleep with other women and I know about it and say nothing. Hell NO. So If a white women believe that this is the way to keep a black man at my side, then she is welcome to have the lot of them.

Thank you for your time and please dont not mention my name on the web.
Have a wonderful day / evening.

TANAI KWAI says:

Hi anonymous...

"No man is going to put his penis in my ass and then into my mouth."

In the interest of clarity, are you amenable to these activities in, say, a different order? If so, please respond to mouthtoass@hotmail.com.

Yours in the faith,
Tanai Kwai

joe says:

It is pointless for people to argue "in general" whether people pay money to male / female prostitutes to service them.

i think many who engaged in such activities are just "accidentally" involved in such activities. Yeah, maybe they will still crave for such sexual things, but it is really not forming a bigger part of their lives.
And so we cannot judge someone just because of their "accidental" actions, right ?

Example. White women go carribean to have sex with the local black there. Surely it is only a small small group of people there. Even those who really get involved probably were "accidentally" involved in sexual activities there. You see, the so call rent-a-dread can started off saying he is willing to be a tour guide. So after a whole day of showing them around and the the women are gradually off guard, those sexual things then follows. Most probably the women themselves will wonder why they ended having sex with those people in the first place.

Think again, most women in your countries work hard every day, and they dont engage in casual sex too, so it is better not to use lousy words on themselves. Some white men will use lousy words on their white women, and vice versa. This i think is careless remarks.

You see, many people are hurt by words and actions that are un-intentional. And worse still, sometimes "sorry" are not said. Ended, when the relationships are not manage well, people start to have wrong impression with each other..

As for accussation of the white men going bangkok to play the thai girls, and that the white women call this group of men lousy name...

well, this problem probably is the same as what i mentioned above. It is just a very very small percentage. Those who mis-behave themselves so badly that they disgrace the white people name is really in the minorities. i think most white men are hardworking people and they behave well. If once in a long long time, they accidentally engage with casual sex with the thai girls there, it is understandable.

We are just living human being, and sex is one thing that is around us and tempting us every day.

i think important things is for people to control ourselves and try not to make too many unnecessary judgements or calling people name.

Before we complain about the other beside us, or the opposite gender around us, maybe we can also look at issue that we didnt do so well.

Sometimes we are fed up with someone, but actually we ourselves too make the person angry with us too.

Remember we had been toddler before, and many of us are loved by our family before. And when we have our little babies, we too will do our part to love and give them our love. But we also notice sometimes our babies got angry with us and scolded us, right? This of course, we as adult know that is is a casual "remark" by our babies.

And as adult, we must ask ourselves whether we have played our part in handling our relationship with the other person who is an adult like us too.

martin says:

face it a white women is going to go for a black toned big cocked guy instead of a white fat tattoed bear drinking diddy cocked english guy who talks a good fuck. face facts black guys look better have twice as big cocks and look after there bodies, it does not take rocket science to see why any women wants to fuck them wake up you stupid fat white football worshiping english what have you got going for you.nothing! I suggest leave the bear alone stop saying we when you talk about football when you have never even played and take a look in the mirror(all bought and payed for isnt it!!!!) discusting race white pale british.And itsnot only the single women fucking the blacks its more than likely your wife!!!!!

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