Ning from Nong Khai wins divorce lottery

chris says:

i think thats john terry,im sure he will be ok with his money!

Matt says:

50% from a short-term marriage? I know NOTHING of UK Family Law, but that really seems excesive.

Andy says:

Seems like some venal parody of "Class War" won the election last time out, eh? Imagine that,.... A bunch of corrupt, rich, amoral freeloaders winning an English election?

I wish some fucker would get the tanks out in London...

Bobby Dazzler says:

The guy is a real loser, he deserved what he got, fuck him.

anon says:

Finally a new posting! Where have u been? :) Hua Hin report was after family visit right? So that can't be explanation for keeping "us" waiting for another more or less hilarious commentary or posting. :) WB!

faatm says:

Does'nt just happen in England....and they aren't always Thai ....

Jack Wow says:

I won't hear a bad word said against Great Britain and its splendid generosity. Income support/jobseekers allowance/sickness benefit all pay around the same as a teacher's monthly wages in Thailand. Apparently these benefits fund many Brits' lifestyles here.

So rumour has it.

Mr Thaksin, BKKchat.org says:

hahahahahahahahahaaha....
good one Chris.

Thaxo.

Grunt says:

This clip should be mandatory viewing for every western man before he marries any female, be she western or otherwise.

When questioned, we sing the same tune as the cultists of feminism...

"Were doing this to protect the children!"

daniel says:

How many times must you stupid guys be warned......how many times do you guys think she is the one who is different......how many stories have you guys heard about thai girls doing this in thier own country let alone your own.

well.. you dumbs fucks you never learn do you, i have no pity for you IF YOU DONT LISTEN YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU GET.

heed and take warning........
ignore..and reap the consequences.

Saffa_G says:

That has to be one of the saddest things....it really is disgusting. Comming from South Africa this really blows me. Excuse the pun! Poor bloke, but surely he had heard of this before, or was he just so damn hardup for a women he thought it was worth the risk. He is still is dumb to think that she didn't have a hand in it. Stupid ho.

Anonymous says:

i dont get why these guys cant find english girls, he's seems like an alright kinda fella, and his thai girl is not beautiful as he says ; there are better looking girls available in Thailand and the UK

SPQR_US says:

OMG this sucks...what a whore...

BTW my wife is Thai. I have a good pre-nup though. Not that I am planning on a divorce. She is great and we get along well.

I got cleaned out once before by my ex-wife years ago though (may she rot in hell) and that makes me feel for Chris.

The horror of his story is that the cunt gets her lawyer paid for. What a screw job, don't you guys vote in the UK?

I think men need to create a blog of horrors where this shit gets posted (Thank you BTW David). We should post the names of the representatives that voted this crap in as well as the judges names, I know that they hate that.

At the end of the day Chris has some balls and I admire his action here. Most guys just bend over and take it.

In the US it is pretty bad too but this guy's story is really really bad. The hardest part to hear was him going in and thinking he had a case, a man has no case. The system is totally corrupt.

I remember my friend told me how unromantic and wrong it was for me to get a pre-nup (Mr. Catholic guilt married twice before, lost everything friend). He went on and on about how it wasn't a marriage if I got one and all. I had just bought a new house for my new Thai wife and I. My friend was still penniless from his last divorce and drove an old Mustang with the doors wired shut and it has plastic tape on the tail lights. He was the one that used to bitch about how one day he had $100K in the house in cash a $300K a year job and a nice big condo one day and he was broke the next when his bitch of an ex-wife left him (she was an egyptian by the way) and we all call her the "Egyptian Claw".

Anyway my wife got a little misty eyed and held back some tears when I gave her the papers to sign, but everything has worked out well. I felt bad to have to feel like I needed to do it but I think I felt worst when I lost all of my property the last time.

The way I see it if there is no profit motive then people have less reason to engage in this type of odious behavior in the 1st place.

In our case I told my wife my story from day one and there was never a doubt about signing the pre-nup and opting out of the California divorce code (as you can do).

I love my wife and don't think we will ever get divorced but I did what I could to make it easier to stay together.

I really feel for Chris and anyone in his shoes.

philH says:

$300 an hour? And the rucking fest!
Saw a lawyer a year back sorting out power of attourney over my mum's estate. 50GBP + VAT for 15 minutes, that works out at nearly $450 per hour. And all SHE did was tell me log on to the web site and download the forms. On top of that SHE gave me duff info, wrong forms!

These days in the UK if you have the meat and two veg hanging between your legs you get fucked over big time. Thank fuck I'm not in the UK anymore and I don't pay tax (schhhh! don't tell mr brown).

btw I've not had time yet to follow up the link but if he got turned over for only two million Baht he:-
a) wasn't worth much.
b) wasn't very bright.
and
c) got off lightly.
My termination of conjugal rights cost me a 250,000GBP house (17.5 mil Baht) and I am way down the pecking order of divorce rip offs.

Dana says:

This gentleman's experience presages the coming apocalypse. After the worldwide battles over food and water and space and fuel; the final battle will be man against woman. A species ending knifefight to the death for all parties. A fitting ending to a species that thought bell bottom pants were a good idea. The women are winning now but it is only a trivial battle in a long war. We will all die and then the beetles and the butterflies can once again live in peace.

BITCHMASTERZ says:

Yeah stupid limey alway gets what coming! Then came them stupid French and stupid Aussies too hehe!

Dicer says:

All this is about living in a female pack society.....and farangs becoming or always being a compendium of cartoon faux pas guaranteed to melt your face. These idiots have a check list of all the things to lose face and be stomped on! I mean look at that face.....tragic. Why is it that whimpering (or hulking) Saxons think they can go to a mutant peasant society and get away with it all. Isn't it all about rules?

Thais have orchestrated conflict avoidance to a peak...the small talk exchange when making a purchase...smooth flow between strangers. However this avoidance thing is put to a test when the customer returns and now the store person goes into anxiety or the saxon decides to marry the smiling village tart... in general conversations they avoid serious topics. Such topics could reveal real points of view so better to avoid, talk about prices or beauty contests...as a result you have a completely non thinking populace...no exchange of ideas out of fear. And then you get sucked into the arch-illusive sewer, the one that lulls you into thinking that you're ok, and everything is going to be nice with your village tart. Really? Well here we go?

Silly f****** boys.... never learn do they. What would the Dog Whisperer say? Well, let's see.

SE asia is a female area to begin with...the tribes are still matrilineal matrilocal like the Lisu in China and Hmong in N Thailand... the Central Thais, Laos etc with ladies sending home money every month is a reminder of this structure. In the old days the girls brought back the beau who worked for the family's efforts. Now it is just cash....and the altar.... or in this case British courts.

When are these f morons going to wake up and smell the coffee. The sao is JUST LEASED OUT so that they can hook or do anything they like as long as the cash flows. So we are talking a female pack. They have ensured their territory with laws. And with Sak Dinah they keep non pack officially out and not even get a respect name. This pack uses and manipulates to keep non pack at bay. No wai, and all the cheating is largely a message YOU ARE NOT WANTED...wrong territory, but instead of throwing spears, it is done in the subtle female way, cheat all the time, negative and defensive, and the all pervasive sneer, the comment behind your back, using language and gesture to create an invisible but recognized boundary. The classic is the wife still calling the husband "it" (munn) to the maid and kids. There is no idealism in the "me only" & "me first" world so where are the lines between human and animal?

This is really just a more synthetic recognition of animal behaviour. It is saying that animals have something in common, whereas the relativist point of view is a less developed point of view that the hyena is completely different from the jackal, a lack of awareness and stays stagnant on the idea that power is the basic element... and yes David, until the sun burns out!

Each mutant trick is a program....a nugget. The Dog Whisperer said, oh, if you have a dog and he waved at his 40 dogs...get it spayed or neutered. It's the only way. There is the yank-euro man with his luggage. Enter a million ways to trap this male and get "it" subsurvient. As dogs have to be socialised to figure out their own animal behaviour the same holds true for humans, pack animals need training. Does the guy above look like he's recieved his training? The sao, on the other hand, is doing her usual female pack tricks.

Now some of our Issan sao may pretend that they're not about to be submissive. In dog psychology terms a lot of the problems are unruly females who will fight when you try to train them. It's a bit-by-bit power deal, ego deal and no submitting deal, but they wear out and give in and when they hit balance they are OK. Mutant tarts are nearly psychotically out of balance and don't know it. Also the matrilineal matriocal stuff is upsetting to farang males who get freaked out...they generally have no idea what to do...economics, culture etc explain this phase... a female pack floating in a male and brutal world is going to be defensive.

On Dog Whisper this one lady had a real mental problem with her dog. She saw a dog get bad treatment when she was a little girl so she got into the protective thing about a really nasty dog leading to her not getting married. A guy won't marry the lady because her dog is out of control...Cesar visits...while they are talking the dog hops on the couch and tries to take over...Cesar says, a dog under control will never disrepect your friends (and take over etc) and this is ditto for the farang with the mutant wife. Watch them..when they introduce friends the wife ignores like the respected old exmonk meditation teacher from the US was doing when I met him in town, or the euro businessman whose girl won't even look at us, or others who hang back and look at the ground. Sometimes out of culture, the female will be polite a few months, but if the male doesn't keep up leadership and monitor them, they go straight to disrespect like the tart who ordered twenty dishes in the restaurant to get back at the yabbering hubby and his mates. What do you expect? Anway the woman in the dog show cried through the whole show. Cesar did get her to change her mental image and this helped the dog...with dogs especially they will reflect your state of mind. Just by a mind change she got things going. So the question is as one pokes around Thailand what is the mind doing? The difference between leaders is they are 100% on target aware of self being leader. The others are wondering where the shampoo aisle is.

Another point he said was animals are either followers or leaders...so everything needs to be re evaluated...business relationships, general public, tarts etc the usual nice guy persona of the farang just does not go over anywhere especially in a peasant society. The clues are right there. Tiny beasts trying to shove you around. "Impossible," you say until you see tiny Nunu who was voted most vicious dog in the world...a Chihuahua.. these hulking saxons out of their wits in fear by a doggy...imagine what the mutants would do to them. The more I hear about whimpering Saxon misfits being ripped off by village mutants the more the focus concentrates on the problems of foreigners who are projecting onto their village tarts....

A really touch and go existence isn't it. Some people like this one above would likely be in North Pole on top of an Eskimo igluu with a surfboard and the hopeful illusion that someday it would all change...and it will...13 billion years and bingo a polar shift and so who has the last laugh on the eskimos eh?

Dicer says:

As I'm banging on about dog psychology I wondered why dominant males respond poorly to calm assertiveness...and it occurred to me that it can be switched to balance for an experiment. I am too abstract thinking and have never spotted all the local body language in spite of studying proxemics. I never factored in animal behaviour...now i can see it ...it is all right there... you see the gin muu guys (let's eat the pig type of farangs) with sloppy posture, dopey hair, slave status being carved up by idiot women. Observation is not the only thing...in addition to right posture, right mind action there is interaction to bring locals into balance. This will turn out being pretty easy as they try to be balanced in their own group and it is the area of non pack where they have problems: MEETING AN ALIEN. Actually in pack terms they have such a slick first encounter system that foreigners live here 20 years and don't have a clue what locals are up to. It's like the Dog Whisperer teaching his pack to always wag their tails at any dog they meet, but then run back and hide somewhere and on the second meeting, show their teeth. But one time is so unique on this planet that most people are fooled. Mutants aren't and are ready to show their teeth. If you rethink the Saxon and Issan sao in court episode this is what it amounts to.

John says:

Look, I feel very sorry for all the guys that come to Thailand for the first time and fall in love with these money hungry prostitutes. "Please send me money so I won't have to work bar". Those of us here any length of time know these girls love to work at the bar and be with their friends where they can learn more ways on how to get the cash out of the farlangs pockets for their ya-ba, ya-E, drinking and gambling addictions. I really believe that it is an addiction to them to see how much they can hurt a farlang both emotionally and financially.
Shame - shame -shame on Thailand for allowing these predators to ruin your countries name like this. There must be something you can do as a deterrence to these predators -- Just take a couple from Pattaya, Bangkok and a few from Patong and let them spent a few years rotting in the monkey house for what they did to some newbie. Then I'm sure the prostitutes will think twice before they start their next sting on some poor farlang.
Now this does not count for anyone who has been to Thailand a few times or calls the LOS home because we know that Thai prostitutes are like toilet paper--- use them once then throw it (them) away!!

marklatham says:

well said bruvva.
My thai conection still costs me money after thirty years.
But we have a wonderful child born in bangkok,soi three who makes it all worth while for me.
I still love the country and the people and reflect on my own short comings in a destructive realationship.

Sunglasses Ron says:

Why the fuck should the British govt bail out some stupid cunt who was arrogant enough to think a bargirl loved him?

Any twat that goes around Thailand in an England shirt deserves everything he gets.

If he didn't want her to get 50% of his assets then why the fuck did her marry her? What a fucking dipshit.

Seth106 says:

Sadly there is more to this story and the con seems more likely to be a British based scam carried out by a Brit. I don't think Ning from Nong Khai actually got a lot. He mentions that she had menial work at a hospital. Scammers don't usually do menial work on their way to payday. Just a thought

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=
pD_Na1voooQ&mode=related&search

Charles Edward Frith says:

Lonely occidental men + Relatively impoverished oriental women = Compelling YouTube viewing.

Matt says:

prenup prenup prenup!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SPQR_US says:

You as always I wonder if this is even true. It could just be that Chris is a fake and he's just doing this...

Whatever the case whether the tart had a job or not or was in the UK or not it is true that society is out of balance here. In most western countries now wage disparities between men and women are trivial. Gartner and Forrester research in the US as well as a multitude of government research shows this.

Despite the BS feminazi hysteria to the contrary there is really no statistically measurable difference in treatment or earning power between EQUALLY QUALIFIED men and women. Also most people (Thai brides aside) marry people of their own socio-economic or close status. But just as prosecuters have known scientifically for years that most homicides are not committed by a person the victims knows, the fiction is more convenient than the reality.

The only earnings delta comes from a lifespan measure not from male female compensation analysis. The reason for this is that women exit and re-enter the work place by personal choice more frequently than men and this is not directly attributable to child birth and rearing. This is due to the perception of choice. Women feel more empowered to take career "breaks" than men and society continues to support this. The result of these PERSONAL choices is that on average when you add up lifetime wages and divide by the person's AGE only you get on average a SLIGHTLY lower number for women than for men. BTW no one counts (by law in the US) monies received from divorce settlements in income calculations unless the person reports it and it is Federal Law in the US to note this on all forms asking income questions. So women on AVERAGE actually have more income and assets than men if you do a full accounting. It is all for the children after all...

Yeah right so the kids can grow up watching their dad living in a cinder block flat and their mom serial fucking every truck driver in town while using dad's money to buy whiskey and cigarettes with the kid's college money.

Ironically it is men who are paying for women to take these multi year vacations in the 1st place and then the men are then again penalized for the wage disparity they have in fact created for allowing these contemptuous sows to roll around eating bon bons and watching Jerry Springer for years at a time while they slave to provide for both.

I don't really understand how this is allowed other than that men are allowing it. For myself I have been carefully removing myself from this system over the years. Having said that the system is sooo corrupt that this is really really hard. I feel for this Chris guy if it is true.

Andrew Fox-Russell says:

Whilst its easy for us all to say "som nom na" (and much worse).... it could happen to any of us - not just those of us (me included), who married a bargirl. Its the risk you take when you get married (and I am prepared for the consequences - hleped by the fact I don't have any assets). Having said, some guys are truly clueless, and there's no helping them.

Grunt says:

The two main culprits are the state, in this case the UK in its waning days of societal decline...

And the nitwit men who marry foreign girls then cut them loose before a long and exhaustive vetting process.

Wanna enjoy the best of all worlds? Do what David does, remove the weak links.

golden cock says:

Chris you are a dopy cunt,you deserve everything and more,why don't you go back to thailand and find another bar girl.One who loves you and won't rip you off ha ha ha ha.All this shit about siters etc.How the fuck do you know who her family are they all look the fucking same.My advise to you and any other english bloke is ,fuck as many of them as you can.Don't ever feel sorry for them ,they have a shit job so what,so do I.But it gives me the right to go to poor countries,and fuck lots of fit looking birds.Remember might is right and if they give you any lip fuck em off and get another one,plenty more fish Blah blah

flewbiddy says:

i had thought that the UK has community property laws when it comes to divorce. if that's the case, and assuming the wife earns nothing during the marriage, then at the time of divorce she should only be entitled to 50% of the family assets that accrued during the marriage - anything either party owned beforehand stays with such party. there are a few nuances to this, but if someone gets married on day one, divorced on day two, and is forced to give up 50% of all the assets he owns was poorly represented.

thebamboorat says:

My God!

Imagine, if you dare, what sort of diabolically evil beast would be spawned from the carnal union of a Thai bar girl and a western divorce lawyer.

A coldly calculating “Alien” mutant. Completely amoral with neither compassion nor mercy and acid for blood. A life-force fuelled only by one thing, a primal lust for your money.

Forget psychoanalysing Fido or the apocalyptical man-woman dust up. If the mixing of these genotypes takes place we are all doomed!

Chico says:

This guy is truely sad, but having said that I dont think anyone deserves to get screwed like this, even the retarded..

On the subject of lawyers:
Q: what do you call a thousand lawyers chained together at the bottom of the sea?

A: A good start! :P

Theluckyone says:

I met my wife through my ex, who brought her a long as a translator, three dates in she told me that my ex was only in it for the cash and that I should get out asap, 'cos I was a nice guy and didn't deserve to be ripped off. I took her advise sharpish, legged it back to the UK but kept in touch, I moved out here 2 years ago, we were married last year, she asked me to help her start a business & has never asked for a penny since. There are good Thai girls out there, women are the same the world over, different parts of the globe just have more of one kind than the other. The best advise to anyone is get to know your future wife first & read between the lines her every action, response & expression will tell you what you need to know, & for god sake make sure you both speak at least one common language..fluently. This twat got everything he deserved for being stupid.

duangping says:

the only way these cons/scams are able to work is if the con/scammers continue to get their victims who arrive by the planeload day in day out.I dont believe blokes like chris are simply unlucky,their inexpierence coupled with high levels of stupidity make them easy targets.The British goverments seems to spend a fortune on trying to prevent thai birds from getting visas in bangkok,however by then numbnuts is in love and no ammount of red tape is gonna stop him.I seriously think that all male visitors to thailand should be warned about this before they arrive,who knows it may save a few of them.(the book private dancer by stephen leather should be compulsory reading)I am sure the foreign office warns its citizens of other scams to be careful of.I guess this is another example of equal rights for all except white males who chose to go on vacation in Thailand.Funny how on the rare occasions when a dopy pissed up white female gets raped by some thai bloke its splashed over all the media and the foreign office issues its warnings and yet when dopy farangs get ripped of year after year they do nothing.must be because we are all sex tourist /pervert scum.I do feel sorry for chris though and admire him for his courage in broadcasting his story.changing the subject any reports yet of the dildo shows re-emmerging in nana yet?

Mr Thaksin, BKKchat.org says:

Chris,

do you reckon your ex would let me poke her for free ???

and mate no offence, street wise you are not.

Only a seriously desperate wonker would marry a bird after 2 months.

You wonkers say "she speaks good English"

what Knob jockey's like you Chris means is that she can say "l reary rove you so much"

Thank good for wonkers like you mate, otherwise old Thaky would'nt look so good.

Thaxo.

dub says:

Don't they have prenuptial agreements? Can't you stipulate in one of those agreements that whatever each party bring to the marriage shall be retained by that party if the union were to dissolve? If so, get your girl to sign one of those. Just tell her that she has to sign that paper to become co-owner of your estate. Then if she ditches you, you are protected, and you get to kick her ass out the door and give her nothing. OR, even tell her what she is signing. If she doesnt want to sign it, then you know what you've got.

Pieman says:

A set up from the start with an experienced fleecer in Nong Khai relaying instructions about what to do next in return for a big cut of the spoils.

Heartless scam-bags - I mean, look at the state of the guy!
There are only two reasons why this hasn't happened to me:
1) I've never had enough capital in Thailand to buy anything bigger than a motorbike and
2) Whenever I feel myself going soft and thinking "there's something different about this one", I take off all my clothes, put on all the lights, stand in front of a full-length mirror and ask my self, "why the fuck would this babe want to live with me?"
There's only ever one answer.

bob says:

that makes about farang 100,000 victims being cleaned out by thai females in this ever expanding get rich quick racket.

hentaigaijin says:

yes mate, they've booked chris in to give a series of lectures on thai culture =;-O

SPQR_US says:

I guess the issue really is the high level of corruption in the western legal system.

All US states reguarly even violate their own laws on asset distribution in divorce settlements. For example in California it is allegedly "community property, and the law is crystal clear about formulas and timelines. That having been said Judges almost never follow the law and are completely unaccountable Kangaroos.

I personally have never been divorced in California but I am very very familiar with the legal structure here. In addition to the illegal distribution of assets from the Kangaroo's pouch, there is the matter of the support awards. Let's say you have a woman with a university degree and physically capable of working. Most often the court will award support for the whore in and this is not uncommonly over $1,000 or more US per month for median wage earners. Keep in mind that this "support" comes from somewhere and it has to come from somebody's NET somewhere.

According the Public Policy Institute they have 2004 published statics stating the the median male wage in California of $35828. The language of the law in California is very vague about how much support can be awarded or for how long. So as a practical matter what happens is this:

Male gets filleted, poor bastard only makes $35K before taxes. Figure a 30% tax rate federal and a 9% State that leaves our flunky about $21,350 per year in CALIFORNIA if he doesn't itemize, which statistically he doesn't. He might pick up another couple of thousand like 1 or 2 if he does but his ex-wife can get a court order for that or one requiring him to file and give her the credit (yes this is true). So as a practical matter it doesn't matter at that income level wheter he does or not.

So on with the fun...

The median home price in California is $466,000 and the bitch almost always gets to keep this. The median mortgage payment in California is currently $1912 per month or $22944 per year. You do get to claim your property taxes against your income tax liability but in California it generally doesn't work out to you being able to claim it all because the IRS put a ceiling on that. This probably won't matter since the wife always tries to claim any tax advantage, credit or refund and will ask the court to require the male to file in her favor which they always do. In most States the courts are aware but don't care that their orders are actually violations of Federal law. In my own divorce in another state they did this to me so I ignored them and told them so. I was threatened with jail and had to produce the federal law denying them jurisdiction to do so. Despite thsi they still made the order but it was unenforceable. My ex's lawyers even then made a motion for me to be held in contempt and I had to file the federal order again. This is how the courts work in the US.

Of course the minute a woman files for divorce she immediately always stops working so as to maximize the burn. In most cases her lawyer tells her to do this. If this were a business or insurance matter we would call this behavior: Crimminal Fraud and Conspiracy.

Our male victim then gets saddled with a house payment that he probably couldn't afford when they were both making it together. Now if he only nets on average: $21,350 and his mortgage payments total on average $22944/year then he is not going to make it. The courts often make alimony awards for years and years and the wife can keep coming back all she wants to the trough when she needs more whiskey, rubbers and cigarettes.

Of course he can't pay this and his own rent and even though the law says no order can be made that prevents him from meeting his own expenses they ALWAYS kill the guy and then hold him in contempt of court when he clearly just doesn't have the means to pay.

I have a new renter in one of my rentals that is in this boat. I am not one to listen to sob stories. I am a business man. I have a large staff and several income properties and other investments. I have heard it all and have lived a good deal of it myself. I mention this only to mention that I am watching this poor bastards story unfold before my very eyes.

He has a great job and great credit. He owned his own home for years and now he rents a single room cabin from me in the country. His wife of 25 years left him for a guy she was in DRUG RE-REHAB with. No one disputes this and their children tend to support this series of events. Nevertheless our totally corrupt Kangaroo courts in California awarded her most of his income and proceeds of the house sale as she is too "incapacitated" to work. She was waiting to move in with her new lover until she sold the house and took the money that I expect she and her new fuck buddy will spend on drugs together. Her children are grown so I guess she was upset about not getting any support for them...

Dicer says:

What we get is is the non stop shower of invisible spears. Patrilocal bunches did their spear throwing in the 1700s. So Thais make up for this lost opportunity in their matri way by disrespect and showers of sneers. US males neutered and Last Manish are so desperate for basics (bonking) they will hop anything that moves even a Lao street cleaner and then submit everything including that credit card...without any idea of male behaviour (unless Mexican or out of a ghetto) these poor guys rationalise away in their good guy NICE bubble that things are OK...but of course when there is disrespect it is not OK.

Imagine teaching male behaviour to these guys. They have elaborate defence perimeters set up to rationalise anything that seems untoward. In the end they actually got what they came after; The Lao tart who is drooling trying to read a comic book in the front room...so who cares? They got the prize...and like the average beerbar man says, go with the flow. They don't want to analyse because linger on the floor of reality is synthesis...oh me oh my!

In the end what suckers these guys into the Thai deal is nowhere on the planet can they get some fluff...this is it...so even though some start to figure it out, they make the compromise...they have waited 20 30 40 years for a female and don't care about sneers, cheating or anything else...if they get the mininal they are OK...so this is low esteem meeting low esteem...compromise...classic case of the neutered male meeting the low esteem peasant girl.

jaafar says:

SPQR_US has his tax figures all wrong. If a single man is making $35,000 per year, he is most certainly not in the 30 percent bracket. Before beginning to calculate his tax, he gets to subtract $8200, which leaves him with a taxable income of $26,800. The Federal tax on this amount is $3659. If you figure California tax at 7 percent (not 9 percent) you get another $1800 or so, although this sounds high to me. Now $35,000 - 3659 - 1800 = $29,000, or almost $30,000 per year, NOT $21,000. I suspect that SPQR_US is using the guesstimates he uses for himself and others in his income bracet, and those guesstimates are just wildly inaccurate for someone who does not even get near the 28% bracket.

But the fundamental injustice remains. I can understand a mother with children, whose husband has been regularly unfaithful to her, getting such generous rewards, but in the days of "no-fault divorce," it seems to me that there should be "no rewards," either.

But I'm gay so what the heck do I know?
:-)

tingtawng says:

Guys who are married to a Thai woman - you need to ring-fence 'escape funds', and NEVER mention this money to your wife. Doesn't matter if she's your wife of 10 years. Put it in an account you never mention. Put your day-to-day funds in a current account and let your wife and everyone know about THOSE funds. In the event of a divorce, it's easily worth the risk of any punishment of not declaring funds if this secret account is discovered.

Problem is - western guys like to show off their wealth to their Thai women - it's all part of the low self-esteem Dicer mentions.

Even if a guy hasn't been steam-rollered in the west via the divorce courts, he's been trained in the ways of metrosexuality - the premise that women are on a pedestal. So when a Thai lovely wraps herself around him, this actually feeds on his low self-esteem (he feels unworthy of this attention) - and so uses his money to compensate for this feeling of inadequacy.

jaafar says:

I can't help commenting again, about the effect of women's lib on Western men, or whatever is going on.

A few years back, I was trying to enjoy lunch in the (then) J.J. Restaurant in Chiang Mai, but I found my attention distracted by this weird farang man who was actually CRINGING in front of his extremely un-beautiful Thai mate (think of Mr. Toad and you've got her.) I was wondering: has this man no self-respect at all? He was actually SAYING things like: "I want you to really love me. I want to share my life with you." Ms. Toad glared at him like a basilisk.

That night, I went to have dinner at a French restaurant, a rare treat. And in came a Thai Silver Fox, elegantly dressed, with a superbly beautiful Thai woman. I guessed his age at about 70, with his silver hair, and her age at about 25. I believe his costume even went so far as a monocle dangling around his neck.

There was no cringeing, there was no whining. They were both there to have a lovely dinner, and HE was running the show because (AHEM, GUYS!) he was PAYING for it.

A really strong contrast!

But I'm gay, so what do I know?? :-)

Grunt says:

The above comments are not-so-subtle derision attemting to paint western men in the LOS as "losers".

This is garden variety propaganda designed to dissuade the fence-sitting guy in America or the UK from actually getting on the plane.

The casual observer is always the target. This is the same as the "swing state" issue in American politics. The base gets little attention, while those that could go either way get the lions share of the TV spots.

The ultimate goal of dicer and her many MANY other nom de plume's is the divert curious men away from solution oriented actions.

Why, you may ask? Simple! Any man that gets off the plane in Thailand is automatically innoculated against feminism and becomes a hard core convert to reality.

This is what the status quo drones fear the most. Because a man that can take control of women may eventually turn his gaze towards other thorns in the side of humanity.

Like, scumbag divorce lawyers. Limp-wristed linux lovers. Fruitcake pagans. The IRS!

Whatever you do, dont take that first step. It just may lead you to a whole new world of possibilities. And we cant have that now, can we.

SPQR_US says:

Hi Jaafar,

Yes I padded our flunkies tax rate a bit based upon what I thought would happen. I thought it would as a practical matter work out to about 28% and 9%. Yes my personal brackets are also different as you guessed. Please see further why I used that expediant and rounded up a little:

here's why; When I got divorced my ex-wife immediately filed her taxes and claimed all of the credits leaving me with all my income (on paper), and none of the write-offs or credits. Another thing she did was to drain all of our accounts. She also filed married filing separately to maximize the damage as most of their lawyers tell them to do. This raises the effective tax rate I reasonably feel a couple of percentages off base. Under those circumstances I feel my percentages might actually be a little conservative.

Interesting that you are gay. I am worried about you guys with the new marriage pressures in the US and the west in general. My wife tells me that a man can marry a ladyboy no problem in thailand, don't know if this is true. Also one of my friends is a TS here in San Francisco. He asks me sometimes about how I feel about gay marriage as I generally vote Republican (only for tax reasons BTW) and he wants to know what I think. I am socially quite liberal. My answer to my friend is that I support the idea of gay marriage but I worry about all the gay and transgender people being put through this horrible corrupt legal divorce grinder like the rest of us.

Gay men over 30 for example in the US are an affluent high asset group. One of the simplest reasons for this is that they haven't lost anything to divorce. One of the biggest groups pushing for gay marriage in California is the lawyers' lobby, guess why...

Erik says:

I think a lot of people forget that this guy is a nasty piece of work who probably treated his wife in the same way. In a video he is seen showing a naked picture of his wife. I bet his wife must have had a good case for leaving him - good for her!

Charlie says:

But ... Linux is cool.

Dick Renegade says:

He's English. He deserves it.

SPQR_US says:

No...Linux is not cool.

I have to through my lot in with grunt on this one. I think divorce is a great distraction to the middle class and nuevo riche.

It has been an excellent foil for the old money and landed gentry. How often do you see one of them getting skinned and thrown out of the game like us?

The only difference between the man on the top and the man on the bottom is the money.

chris says:

you said she left u cause unreasonalbe beahaviour i reckon she might be wright what kinda prick comes on the internet and does this and shows her naked pic too.by the way any chance u might let me know wheres shes living in uk,she sounds up for it!

Dicer says:

Jaafar,

You've hit the nail on the end. Cringing, whimpering, an apologetic grin stuck on the face, bad posture, laughable dress sense and a barely bipedal gait are the perfect symptoms of a neutered male. There are thousands of them up and down Thailand. Now the Immigration office says there are 60,000 foreigners doing the monthly visa run in Thailand and 80% stay longer than a year. Add the retired lot and the employed so you have in the region of 90K to 100K foreigners waddling about. Let's be generous and say 50% belong in the neutered category. And that is 50K, quite a number eh. Maybe someone should start the franchise for Avuncular Therapy for Neutered Males up and down LOS.

And yes it all begins with self respect. Do YOU see yourself cohabiting with a low person... and then what is low really? And once you arrive at the rounded low esteem picture you smile and start a plan that fits the tart. Only paying for the dinner and looking important wont cut it. You need a plan for her. And you ask yourself, am I going to be the misfit to the mutant OR am I going to rearrange and de-program her from the female pack schemes, what's it gonna be jack?

In avuncular therapy the super trick is to take a problem like Chris's and solve it in a metaphor. You start off the story in neural terms... visual... once upon a time a geezer saw himself in a spot. Then we go to auditory... and he heard this voice saying Are you an idiot. Then you end with kinesthetics...he felt himself powerful, threw the tart behind the sofa and sat on her... he sensed he was a new man. As you know a metaphor goes into the subconscious... fixing it in cognitive terms really adds power.

Rule one is to always lead and be First out the door...or the lift...no being friendly until mission is accomplished.

A clue: On Dog Whisper the other day, this shar pei...this dog, a female, was 8 months when they got her (6 months is ready for training time and she had skipped two months). The dog which is a wrinkly thing looking like a Chinese ajarn, strutted into their house, marched into every room sniffed and took over the house. The problem was the shar pei dominated the tv room and wouldn't let the ladies watch dog shows like Cesar's. Here's the deal, Cesar comes in and has to continually run this shar pei out 7-8 times, now back a moment, loads of attack dogs including akitas need only one encounter with Cesar to get the message, but this ridiculous shar pei was not going to give up...just amazing. This is a clue that with some mutants they are going to fight like hell. They are not about to give in and will really struggle. When they sense you coming in for a rule they will fight like broncos. So the lesson is, when the fight starts, ride it out.

Rule two is tire them out. A bit like hyper kids or bored pets.

And then you can have your tart go back and forth and change things until she gives up. If you get three tarts for a feast, you walk them around the mall leading the way...look at this...look at this....take them to men's clothing (not the mobile shop she wants to see)...look at this...keep the lead...they follow...they will always follow in shopping because that's what they do. Wear them out. Easier in bkk with mahboonkrong or silom or sukhumvit. Wear them out. Then start the training. Wait until you get polite behaviour..use body language and timing...when they finally come around then you can smile and say something nice. If one starts to show OK behaviour, she is the one to take out next time and pleasantly take the lead. Like I said, at first they are relieved because they actually want a male to be in charge. The rest of it is when they want to slip in charge. I think if they are with a Thai male they hope the guy is a leader.

With a foreigner they have been told to use the manipulation plan so there will be surprise when you suddenly take the lead.

Rule three: after rule one and two are accomplished be generous. No marriage and arrange a generous monthly stipend or if marriage has to be there a good prenup and understanding. From countless examples I've seen in the past though NOTHING fits the culture like a monthly stipend. A sort of mia chao (rental wife) deal that can be terminated at any time without heavy repurcussions. Once you take a lead and your leadership is confirmed no need to be a complete bastard. Reward for the tart who has completed her training and follows it through. And then there is the constant games from the other members of the female pack (the family), but as she's the buffer between you and them that's not as tough.

You wonder in the end why women actually marry non male men, men who sit back and let them be in charge means the female has no respect and goes to funny pronouns, but as the husband in matri world is not the same as in patri world, maybe it doesn't matter. In matri world the female wants cash. If she gets it, it is OK. She is there for the family not herself.

The Dog Whisperer would say it is about limits rules and boundaries, teach them and you are OK and so are they. Leave a power vacuum out there and you are asking for trouble. Of course this is so true in the West, people don't even get married any more. The problem is most likely men have no idea how to do their role and things quickly fall apart. Same thing. Power vacuum and women hyped up to take over, take over and then don't like it, divorce.

It's all a matter of roles and knowing how to play them. Now imagine the millions of US families told to be a pal to kids and use logic. Fine, but it doesn't work when there is no clue about leadership in the family. The male might even try, but the female hyped up by politically correct talk will resist and undermine...the result, disaster.

Now all the above shows that I'm for males and females to succeed in any environment, a win-win situation, unlike the defocused Grunt types who bleat and snort without any suggestive plan or a positive solution for all troubles that afflict us. Chirs's tale might be old and hackneyed, but it is all pervasive and could do with any new perspective. Blaming the UK, US and Sweden's legal system instead of the man for lacking a) a pair of solid bollox and b) that prerequisite understanding of another culture wont solve anything.

marklatham says:

Aren't you sick of these whingeing poms...
Fuck off back to pommieland you cunt.

re_fuse says:

My Daddy said "Don't ever trust anything that bleeds for a week and dosn't die"

jaafar says:

Well, speaking for myself only, I think "gay marriage" is one of the stupidest issues ever dreamed up by our "gay leaders."

For one thing, it is much more useful for lesbians than for gay men, because (duh) lesbians tend to form life-long unions much more frequently than gay men. Do you know the old joke?

"What does a lesbian bring to the second date?"
"A moving van."
"And what does a gay man bring to the second date?"
"WHAT second date?"

Second, the whole idea of gay marriage pisses off the conservative wankers so badly that they put ANTI-gay-marriage initiatives on the ballot, and then come out to vote on those initiatives, and for George Bush. If I were a true-blue paranoid, I would think that the whole gay-marriage issue was a plot concocted by Karl Rove.

And third, as you point out, the whole gay-marriage thing would be a feast for lawyers and gold-diggers. Imagine falling in love with another guy and then being forced to leave him the house ten years later?!?!

I think that gay people would be a lot better off without their bleeping "leaders."

rich says:

poor bastard.............stupid twat you decide, if he only lived here for a bit he would see that they are (almost) ALL scheming bitches, i've been with mine for 3 years and she will never get my cash,...................i bet shes really fukking around in eng now lol
poor bastard.........hang on he met her on a web site.... stupid cunt

golden cock says:

Chris is one of the funniest guys I have seen on the net ,I love the cunt.I bet he made all this shit up.Has any one seen his ramblings on you tube ?Check em out.He is one gullible prick,he insists his ex-wife was not a bar girl how does he know the cunt met her on the internet,then got scammed pretty quick.Does he think she was sitting about doing fuck all before she met him ?I also reckon he is a shit fuck.Though I would love to pole his ex ,she looks half decent.In fact I think I may of nailed the bastard when I was in Nong Khai a while back.Chris please come back to Thailand cause it is wankers like you that make me look good

Tom says:

Perhaps it was this guy's poor taste in interior decor that sent the girl running. Quite an aggressive yellow he's got on his bedroom wall. Perhaps I could suggest some tropical foliage and fairy lights...

Marine Matt says:

Chris you twat, you brought a thai hooker

KIKIRY. says:

I really liked " Dicer " Oct.29th post.It made a lot of common sense!
Since so many guys had been already " fleeced " by the beauties in the LOS it does make sense to have a prenupt agreement and also something such as a " carrot " incentive in order for the thai wife to work towards the objectives. And we must never allow her to manupulate our minds. We all know how these wonderful beings can use their " charms" to make us men do their bidding! Its always better for us to have preventive precautions. Try to make the situation a " Win Win " affair for both parties. As long as she is by our side and abides by our rules we should reward her for her dedication. And if she decides to leave us lets make sure we are ready insured and not to lose a fortune to them ! What we men want is Companionship and the physical part of marriage and what these beauties are after is Financial security so i feel that it is only somewhat fair to give them what they want only after we receive what we man want ! And these wives will only receive the balance financial reward after our demise ya!

marklatham says:

Great comment from bamboorat.
But genes are strange things and i comment from experience.
My son is a product of a beautiful grace coffee shop freelancer from 1978 and me an aussie building worker who was involved in criminality in the region in the past.
What do you reckon-he's a bloody handsome and a sporting marvel and has just the best maths brain that means megabucks on the international markets.
You never know bruvva.....

chris ( britidiot ) says:

THANKYOU FOR ADDING MY VIDEOS TO YOUR WEBSITE WHICH I TRULY ADMIRE .

MY NAME IS CHRIS , I AM NOW 40 AND I HAVE NEVER STOPPED TRYING TO EXPOSE MY EX-WIFES BROTHER IN LAW ( STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY ) . ITS QUITE A COMPLICATED STORY BUT IT IS THE TRUTH .

I MARRIED NING IN JUNE 2003 AFTER A SHORT MEETING VIA A WEBSITE CALLED FRIENDFINDER.COM
NINGS PROFILE HAD BEEN CONSTRUCTED AND ADDED TO THIS WEBSITE BY HER ENGLISH BROTHER IN LAW ( STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY ) . HIS INTENTION WAS TO GET HER MARRIED TO AN ENGLISH GUY WHO POCESSED PROPERTY . THE ENGLISH GUY WOULD THEN GET HER INTO ENGLAND ( TWO YEAR WIFE VISA ) AND THEN AFTER A FEW MONTHS SHE WOULD LEAVE HER ENGLISH HUSBAND AND LIVE AND WORK WITH HER SISTER AND BROTHER IN LAW AND THEN MAKE UP A PACK OF LIES TO DIVORCE AND GAIN A SUBSTANTIAL DIVORCE SETTLEMENT .

AND THE MUG AND WANKER WHO FELL FOR IT WAS ME .

I HAVE READ YOUR COMMENTS AND AGREE WITH MOST OF THEM .

I WAS A VICTIM , BUT NING WAS ALSO A VICTIM . I DONT CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS BUT NING WAS NOT A BARGIRL , SHE WAS A VIRGIN WHEN WE MARRIED AND CAME FROM A DECENT FAMILY WHO JUST HAPPENED TO GET GREEDY .

I DONT KNOW IF SHE STILL LIVES THERE BUT HER ADDRESS IN NONGKHAI IS
20 , VILLAGE NO 17
SEKA SUB DISTRICT
NONGKHAI 43150
NONGKHAI

WE MARRIED IN BANGKOK AT THE REGISTRY OFFICE , I PAID A TRANSLATION OFFICE TO HANDLE ALL THE PAPERWORK AND VISA APPLICATION .
NING HAD HER INTERVIEW ONE MONTH LATER , SHE ARRIVED IN ENGLAND IN JULY 2003 , WE WERE HAPPY , NING SLOWLY GOT USED TO WESTERN INGREDIENTS , WE FOUND SOME THAI SHOPS FOR FOOD , AND NING ENJOYED THE WESTERN CLOTHING
IN THAILAND HER MOTHER DID NOT ALLOW HER TO WEAR SHORT SKIRTS OR REVEALING TOPS BUT MY NEICE GAVE NING PLENTY OF WESTERN CLOTHES AND NING LIKED TO LOOK AND FEEL SEXY .
I ENJOYED WATCHING NING DEVELOP OVER OUR SHORT TIME TOGETHER BUT I WAS AWARE THAT NINGS BROTHER IN LAW WAS UP TO NO GOOD .
HE TRIED TO SELL ME SHARES IN A BOGUS COMPANY CALLED CVET POWER.COM
BUT I MADE ENQUIRIES AND DISCOVERED THAT THIS WAS A CON , HE WANTED ME TO PART WITH £5000 BUT I REFUSED .
I KNEW HE WAS TRYING TO GET NING TO LEAVE ME AND TO LIVE WITH HER SISTER .
I LIVE IN KENT AND NINGS SISTER WAS LIVING IN WALLISDOWN , BOURNEMOUTH .
I TOLD NING ABOUT MY SUSPICIONS BUT SHE ASSURED ME THAT SHE WOULD NOT LEAVE ME , SHE TOLD ME THAT" WE WERE THE ONLY TWO PEOPLE IN THE WORLD"
I NEVER FORGOT THAT .
WE TRAVELLED BACK TO THAILAND IN NOVEMBER 2003 FOR THE VILLAGE WEDDING
THE DOWRY WAS 200,000 BAHT , WE DIDNT GET IT BACK , WE STAYED IN THAILAND FOR A WEEK .
TWO MONTHS LATER , I WAS TOLD THAT HER FATHER NEEDED A BACK OPERATION AND WE HAD TO SEND ANOTHER £700 .
THEN I WAS TOLD THAT HER MOTHER HAD BEEN GRANTED A VISITORS VISA TO ENGLAND AND WOULD BE STAYING IN WALLISDOWN,BOURNEMOUTH .
SHE ARRIVED IN APRIL 2004 AND WE VISITED HER ,
IN MAY 2004 I WAS TOLD BY NING THAT WE HAD TO CONTRIBUTE MONTHLY FOR A NEW TRUCK FOR HER FAMILY IN THAILAND , OUR TOTAL CONTRIBUTION WOULD BE £6000 , HER SISTER AND BROTHER IN LAW WOULD PAY THE REST .
I TOLD NING THAT SHE WOULD HAVE TO PAY IT FROM HER WAGES AND SHE AGREED BUT I HAD TO PAY £1000 DEPOSIT IMMEDIATELY, WHICH I DID .
BY NOW I HAD NOTHING LEFT AND WAS IN CREDIT CARD DEBT UP TO MY EYEBALLS .

THEN IN JUNE 2004 NING BECAME VERY DISTANT TOWARDS ME , I COULD SEE A COLDNESS IN HER EYES , I KNEW I WAS GOING TO LOSE HER .
SHE ASKED ME TO SELL THE HOUSE AND MOVE TO BOURNEMOUTH BUT I REFUSED .
SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WOULD MOVE TO BOURNEMOUTH AND I COULD VISIT HER ON WEEKENDS , SHE SAID THIS WITH A SMIRKING FACE .
THEN ON 10TH JULY 2004 NINGS MOTHER AND SISTER AND BROTHER IN LAW DROVE FROM BOURNEMOUTH AND NING PACKED HER BELONGINGS AND LEFT .

I TRIED TO STAY IN TOUCH WITH NING BUT IN NOVEMBER 2004 I RECIEVED A LETTER FROM A SOLICITOR IN BOURNEMOUTH , NING WAS DIVORCING ME AND I WAS PORTRAYED IN THE WORST POSSIBLE WAY .
I TRIED TO DEFEND THESE ALLEGATIONS BUT I WOULD OF LOST EVERYTHING IF I HAD CONTINUED , SO ON 30TH MARCH 2005 WE WERE DIVORCED AND I GAVE NING £10,000

I THINK SHE IS IN NONGKHAI , MAYBE SHE,S MOVED BUT I JUST HOPE SHE REMEMBERS ME AS A GOOD PERSON.

HER BROTHER IN LAW - STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY IS A CONMAN .
HE WALKED OUT ON HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN FROM HERNE BAY , KENT .
HE REMORTGAGED THE HOUSE BEFORE HE LEFT HER FOR £30,000 AND LEFT HER TO SORT OUT THE FINANCIAL MESS .
HE NEVER PAID ANY CHILD SUPPORT TO HIS BRITISH EX-WIFE , TOTALLING OVER £20,000
HE HAS NEVER SEEN HIS CHILDREN SINCE HE WALKED OUT ON THEM .

HE SUPPORTED HIS PAEDOPHILE FATHER - KEITH JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY .
WHO IS SERVING 3 YEARS IN A BRITISH PRISON FOR SEX CRIMES AGAINST HIS OWN DAUGHTERS WHEN THEY WERE MINORS .

I WILL SEND YOU EVIDENCE OF THIS ON RECIEPT OF YOUR EMAILS.

THANKYOU , CHRIS

chris says:

if anybody wants to contact me , my email address is trueman1966@aol.com

Peter says:

hmmm if i could add a few observations. £6,000 plus for a truck, didnt you check the price im pretty sure they are all made in thailand and sold in the domestic economy at discounted prices by the maufactures. £700 for an operation (in thailand thats over half a years wages so supply and demand rationale can rule that out). Her brother in law trying to sell you investment products in a bogus company- why didnt you take the documentation from him and pass onto the police, im pretty sure that kind of fraud is highly illegal and would be easy to prove with fake documentation to hand. Finally i think anyone who even considers marrying a woman they dont trust 100% should make it a priorty to speak to a good accountant prior to doing anything rash. family law solicitors can give good advice on future problems but accountants are more valuable, moving assets into trusts etc.. safeguarding everything. Anyway sad to hear your story, we live and learn

britidiot says:

its easy to give answers afterwards but when you are smitten and determined to make things work , sometimes you dont listen to logic .
people can leave negative comments and yes i was a fool but all i was hoping for was a happy life .
how could i of reported her brother in law to the police?
how do i know what the price of a new isuzu truck is ?
how do i know the cost of an operation?

i was so emotionally drained that i just didnt care about logic .
i was deeply in love with my wife and would of done almost anything for her .

Fruit Batman says:

Pick yourself up Chris - dust yourself off and start all over again.

You can bet your bottom dollar that your ex brother-in-law will get turned over by the Thais eventually.

As a big fat Yorkshire friend of mine once said. 'When you first meet them you think 'what a lovely, happy smiling bunch of people - but after you have been here a while, you realise what a lying, cheating, conniving, thieving bunch of bastards they really are'.

.... a bit like scousers.

Kikiry says:

My sentiments to " britidiot".........This is a typical situation that demonstrates " LOVE IS TRULY BLIND." Lets all learn from him and be more " aware " of our choosen loving Thai Brides from the LOS ya. As the saying goes " always be prepared " .Time does heal all wounds Britidiot . Just move on forward. ........thats the way life is ! FYI I"m a divorcee too.......

sunbed dave says:

chris
i was looking at the video you made about the father-in-law,

http://www.youtube.com/watch?
v=Fw-yJ_ke-O0&mode=related&search=

who was fiddling with his kids - YOU PUT PICTURES OF HIS KIDS UP TO THE CAMERA. you fucking muppet - that is wrong on so so many levels.

or is it just me?
jeez..........

britidiot says:

the story of his kids who were abused was published in a bournemouth tabloid newspaper and their story was also published in a weekly magazine and their story was also published on the internet via BBC hampshire.
so why is it wrong?

i didnt know about my story being published on this website but did i complain , no i didnt because people have to know that life is not always what you expect it to be .

i didnt marry my thai wife for a joke , i was truly in love with her and she manipulated my love for her own financial gain .

why shouldnt thai people know about " KEITH PARMAN SIBLEY " he was a frequent visitor to thailand and was portrayed as an old geezer living out his life with a young thai bird , when in fact - he was a child predator with perverted intent .

and his son " STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY " knew of his fathers perverted ways but said nothing to his thai wife and her family .

so who is wrong , me or them?

sunbed dave says:

britidiot (you got that right)

firstly, why, in your reply above, drizzle on about the father - you say "why shouldn't thai people know about " KEITH PARMAN SIBLEY...etc" - of course you can expose him, i never said anything about him. and i don't care if the local newspapers did show pictures of the kids, that still doesn't justify you posting it on a web-site for crying out loud, read by thousands.
no wonder you got scammed..........

britidiot says:

i got scammed before any of the above came to light , keith parman sibley seemed to be an innocent old man ( he is 85 years old ) who was living out the rest of his life and wanted to settle in thailand , i would never of imagined that he had abused his own daughters , i actuallt felt sorry for him before the truth came out .

the main reason i made my videos was to expose my ex-wifes brother in law- stewart james parman sibley .
he was the person who set out to con an innocent british man , he was recently divorced from his english wife and he knew how the british divorce courts worked .
i never even knew that this website had published my story but i am glad that they did .
i have said many times that my ex- thai wife was also a victim , she was used by stewart parman sibley to get money by means of marriage and then divorce .
but theres an old saying - WHAT GOES AROUND,COMES AROUND and one day he will be rejected by his thai wife and her family because he has brought shame to them .
he has lied about his father and attempted to hide the truth about his father and one day they will bleed him dry and he will have nothing .

Paul says:

The same thing happens just as often if not more so to guys who marry their countrywomen. It is the reason many chaps went to Thailand in the first place.

In my country Oz,any man with a half decent secure job such as say a train driver can go to King st Melbourne or Brunswick St Brisbane and pick up an Aussiebird who will be willing once he mentions his secure job status and salary and she finds it credible.

She will then lie that she is on the pill and after a while encourage condomless sex.If our train driving friend insists on a condom she will scoop out his sperm while pretending to dispose of condom and impregnate herself. Once she is pregnant she has no need to get married gets a DNA test and Harry the Train driver will have his wages garnished if neccessary to pay her some $250 a week for 18 years for a kid he may never see and has no right to see.In addition the single mum's pension is generous in OZ and many such single mums are collecting not only the pension but from 5 or more different fathers.

It only works on employees though, if you have a company a woman can't touch company assets, the self employed and expats and guys who are mobile change jobs frequently are not targeted in this popular scam, because they can keep moving to avoid the clumsy bureacratic commisars of the CSA.

In Oz some 40% of divorced fathers are on the dole, in a country with an unemployment rate of 5%, they are not on the dole because they are lazy, they are on the dole because they dont then have to pay some greedy bitch.

Any man who goes into a marriage with any woman from anywhere is a fool if he has any assets available for her to snip. If you have any money hide it before you marry her or even cohabit with her since here it is legally the same. Use your imagination.In the last few years there has been a property boom here in Oz which started in 2001 peaked in early 2004 and has since levelled off. Some guys now in their 30s or 40s looking to get married may well have a house or equity in one worth 300k. A lot of these guys romantically think this will give them a head start in married life, wrong, all it will do is attract the wrong kind of wife.The smart dude sells his house first and stashes the money where she will never find it.

faatm says:

Paul ,
Couldn't agree with you more .
If you have any money put it in a trust fund ...anything , just get it away from her grubby little hands otherwise once she's had enough of you it's bye bye to everything you ever earned.
While I feel for Chris he actually got off light ,(in Oz) with kids involved you loose 50% and then 13% per child , once you have lost the lot they take out 13% of your gross earnings per child, add this to a more than generous social security system and you have one big fucking holiday.
Just have a look one day when next you have a day off during the week in Farangland and you will see many woman sitting around drinking cafe latte in the morning sunshine whilst the guy can hardly make ends meet...
With the way things are at present for a woman here in Australia who wouldn't get divorced if the going gets tough when the alternatives are so good.

Paul says:

Faatm, you are a chap who obviously knows the scene in the land of Oz.Many guys here though, particularly younger guys,are starting to wise up. I heard on the radio that a record 10% of the Oz workforce are now living permanently or semi permanantly overseas, and that 90% are male.There are no prizes for guesing why.

I fully agree that economics is at the heart of why so many Oz "women"are so keen for divorce and fleecing their unfortunate husbands.In most cases they are at least as well off if not better off thanks to anti male courts and other state institutions and a generous welfare system.

Take a woman with 2 kids at home with them and husband works. In Oz an unskilled or semi skilled man typically takes home about 400 Aussie bucks a week, 500 with overtime (an Aussie dollar is about 75 cents US) a skilled tradesman or lower paid profession such as schoolteacher or lower level manager or bureaucrat about 600 or 700 bucks, maybe 800 for a senior man. To clear 1000 bucks a week is considered pretty good here in Oz. Moreover this low paid chap will not enjoy the benefits of low cost govt housing granted to the single mum. A single mum with 2 kids will get 500 bucks a week and a govt house which will cost her 100 bucks a week max plus whatever she gets from any fathers of her children. Even if the guy goes on the dole goes overseas hides his money or has no money in the first place she is just as well off by leaving him.

Around where I live mate I will tell you the 2 best businesses to have are the 1628 shop, where they sell only women's clothes between sizes 16 and 28 or a coffee shop where you can charge over 4 bucks for a latte, these are the places the taxpayer's and the ex husband's bucks go.I live in the divorce capital of Oz, outer suburban Brisbane.

For those unfamiliar with Oz the region where I live South East Queensland is the Oz counterpart of Southern California; our warm sunny mild climate is both our blessing and our curse. It is the part of Oz with the fewest locally born people, some 1200 people a week net move here from other states. In the past most were retirees and it still is Gods waiting room here but with the recent economic boom in Oz Queensland, which once had the highest unemployment in Oz,today has the lowest, boasting an unemployment level of only 4% thus with many jobs available many young and middle aged people have now come here to escape the Cold cloudy winters of Melbourne and the preposterous real estate prices of Sydney. Unfamiliar with their new environment, often having paid too much for an undesirable area locals would not have been keen on, away from family and friends, discovering that the cost of living same as in Sydney but fewer places to go at night, travelling long distances to work, poor public transport and infrastructure compared to the south, fewer universities. Queensland was not traditionally known as the deep north for nothing, traditionally it was to the south as the US south was to the North, poorer and more rural.Non anglos would discover that Queensland lived up to its racist redneck reputation. It is nice for holidays but many couples found the Queensland dream only made their marriages worse, little wonder we have the highest divorce rate by far in Oz, double the national average.

There is no more tragic sight than a "basewife". When I first lived in Japan I taught at a NOVA school near Yokota airbase, home to some 4000 US airforce personell, the married ones with their families on base.

At Nova to a man we talked about sex and when we ran out of jokes about our students and everything else we went on saturdays at lunch (Nova is the worst school since you have to work weekends and get your 2days off duringthe week)to laugh at the airforce chaps and their basewives. Almost all were incredibly fat and it was funny to watch their fit husbands look so sorry for themselves and embarrassed as they slyly eyed the slim sexy Jgirls everywhere as they took their basewives and kids to McDonalds or a coffee shop on Saturdays.

Paul says:

Sorry it was the 1828 shop not the 1628 as I posted.Here in Oz Kmart carries a line of women's clothes called "Today's Woman" from size 18 upwards, a very poinaint name in my view.

In Oz if a man on the dole does any part time work earning more than $30 per week, a dollar comes off his dole cheque for every dollar he earns, wheras single mothers are allowed to earn a considerable sum with no decrease of pension plus be paid a bonus for doing so.A man on the dole has virtually no chance of getting public housing for several years, a single mum goes to the top of the list. A man working all week under the hot sun takes home in many cases less than a single mum sitting at starbucks doing no work whatsoever.

It is the working stiff, the buffalo in Thai, who typically works and pays the ex to drink lattees like a fool. Usually the same kind of guy, never been overseas in his life, poorly educated but comfortably off because of sheer heart attack and cancer inducing excessive worry and work. He knows his life sucks (unlike his wife)but doesnt know what to do, where to go. In his youth he had mates who went overseas and experienced feminine women and a pleasurable stress free life. But they lost contact when they were 25 each made his choices, his wife was not over hospitable to the friends of his youth and by his early 30s he has few friends. He often has a well paid secure job, if he chooses not to pay and leaves his job in his late 30s early 40s what will he do? leaving his career half way through to go on the dole. This he sees as his only option to avoid being fleeced, but no man can live on the dole in Oz. Even if he does this he will only end up with 25% of the equity in his house, assuming he owns one, in either case he will have to pay rent, and he can't do that on the dole even if he lives in a trailer.

Jack Wow says:

Paul,

It's pretty much the same in the UK. So much so that girls straight out of school purposefully get themselves pregnant so as they get a free house and a hand-out every week from the dole.

They're also talking about changing the laws so any guy trying to duck out of maintenance payments can be electronically tagged and have his passport confiscated.

The incentive to find a good man, build a life together and take care of the home and family just isn't there for western women nowadays. Going back 50+ years mothers would teach their daughters how to cook, clean etc so they would become good homemakers. But the 60's and feminazism put a halt to that. Now they believe they deserve better - whatever that may be.

Compare all this with Thailand - where there's no welfare system and mothers feel that they have no other options than to leave the kids with their family and go out and sell their bodies to make ends meet, western girls have never had it so good.

Strange days we live in.

There's been so much written on mangosauce about anti farang girls/pro Thai girls, and there's a good reason for that. It comes from experiences of men feeling loathed and ripped off by western women and adored by Thai women.

Can you blame us for wanting what WE feel we deserve?

All that bullshit about you can't find a girl in your homeland, that's why you come to Thailand.

Wrong.

It's just not worth the effort and the time in the hope of finding a good one.

Btw, Chris (britidiot), without sounding condescending - it's been a few years now, mate, and it's time you put it all behind you. Why not come back out here and have some fun, eh? They're not all like Ning.

faatm says:

Paul,
I really do believe the pendulum will eventually swing back.The direction that feminism has taken relationships in the West simply cannot be maintained.

Trouble is most men these days are made to feel guilty for being a man ,accused of being poor husbands, less than desirable fathers and become brow beaten pussys whilst trying to make ends meet and working themselves into an early grave.
Equal rights have become anything but.The term equal rights or affirmative action is so commonly termed as reverse racism it's almost cliche.But no one dare speak out for fear of being labled a misogynist bigot.
It's becoming so bad here that the good old Aussie sense of humour has fallen by the way side lest we offend a vocal minority , the fun and freedoms that were fought for have slipped between the cracks ...you can't even smoke within 4 metres of a public doorway while cars on the road continue to belch carcinogenic fumes into the air.
If the truth is the first casualty of war then common sense must be the first casualty of the battle for equality.

Common Sense says:

Commons sense was not the first casualty in the battle for equality (I'm still here). The balls to be a man's man proudly stand up for what you believe in was the first casualty. Until we as men take political action to stunt the growth of the feminazi propoganda machine the castration will continue unabated. Problem is we've allowed this to continue for so long that any man would be ostracized and labeled a barbarian the moment he spoke out against this in a political forum(at least in the western world).

Where are the lobbyist fighting for men's rights in divorces, child custody, alimony, and the likes. They just don't exist or lack the membership to make their voice heard. Funny how even 3 paedophiles can form a political party to fight for their supposed rights (yeah this actually happened http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/5187010.stm ) but thousands of pissed off men who were taken to the cleaners can't get together to do something about it.

But why bother when you can move to Thailand and shag countless young nubiles after the divorce is settled. Now that i think of it common sense is definetly prevailing. Why get mixed up in the politics of it when there is pussy for the taking in the LOS.

Pants Elk says:

"Common Sense", men of your intellectual capacity and rhetorical brilliance have been instrumental in making feminism the terrible force it is today. Thank you.

"Pussy for the taking in the LOS" - don't you ever stop to think? In fact, did you ever start to think?

Common Sense says:

Pants Elk,

I won't even try to defend my drunken 3 a.m. babbling as I'm too hungover (or drunk) to reread it right now. But i will throw out a hearty FUCK YOU just so I can start my day out on a good note.

Paul says:

Jack, so this is what it has come to, they want to take a man's passport and electronically tag him like an animal, but at least an animal can cross a border without being thrown in gaol.

No doubt it will happen in Britain and it wont be long before the same happens here in Oz. Every rich English speaking country is the same, women have never had it so good, men with money still do ok, few women leave a wealthy man who can pay lawyers and accountants to minimise his tax and avoid creditors legally, it is the working and middle class man who is bearing the brunt of the spleen of the hairy legged obese ugly foul mouthed loud mouthed poorly dressed foul breathed obnoxious self righteous feminazi commisars who can't get a real man.

Jobs for the Girls affirmitive action, you and I get passed over for a job in favour of a women. It is proper for us to suffer state sanctioned discrimination to make up for a priviledge possibly enjoyed by our Grandfathers, a highly logical argument yet uncriticly accepted by our so called universities and media.

I agree the pendulem will turn but the anti male laws will remain, laws are not changed back easily.Nature not law is what will make the pendulem turn and it is happening already.

It is like a market, for all of feminazism one thing has not changed, it is the man who asks and the woman who accepts or rejects and it will never be any other way. How many men can honestly say a woman has asked them for sex or made the first move unless he paid her?

This is what fucksme off about feminazis like hollarback nyc (google their site and see why Gwen Stefani sings "I AINT no hollarback girl" I swear by Jove that on this site these feminazi bitches post pictures of guys they see talking to women on the street and I swear they posted a photo of a guy in NYC turning to look at a girls ass who wore a miniskirt!!!!! They call this "street harrassment"on their Nazi website. By the feminazi definition of harrassment any man who didnt harrass a female would die a virgin.

Men are like the employer and women the employee each needs the other. Feminism is like a big union. Henry Ford hated unions and paid his workers double on the condition that they refused to join the union. But even he had to yield to the unions in the end. But then the pendulum turned, unions got too powerful and priced American British Canadian Kiwi and Aussie workers out of the market. The factory owners closed down and set up shop in China and other Asian countries and Brazil where labour was much cheaper and harder working.

Feminism's Achillies Heel is that a woman has a biological urge to bear a child at about 28 or 30 (not all women I know but more than half at least desire a child) and can't really safely bear her first child past her mid 30s. 40 is realistically the oldest a woman can bear her first child at.

A major reason for widespread marital breakdown is the later average age at which western women bear children. Once the typical young mother was in her 20s, now she is in her 30s. Not only does she probably have to work but a women in her 30s is less energetic and more importantly less mentally durable than a 20 something. Young children can be incredibly stressful and women have a temprament more able to cope with this than men do, but a 35 year old will not handle the pressure nearly as well as a 25 year old as nature intended.

Educated women typically have a totally unrealistic image of their future husband, they want a man handsome fit sensitive caring supportive house husband but also rich and hardworking. The reality of course is that unless they inherited it from Daddy a rich man has no time for the gym the suntan or housework.

They turn down plenty of good offers in their 20s when plenty of guys are still fool enough to get married. But at about 28 or 30 things change for both sexes. The woman (who matures but also fades earlier than the man) sees girls 10 years younger who are prettier and saner than her, she knows these 20 year old gals are still within range for a well off stylish 28 year old guy. Suddenly she is not so fussy but guess what, a dude at 28 is wising up, if he was going to get married he would have done so by now, he sees older guys at his work in their 40s, miserable whether divorced or married and either way making good bucks but having virtually none to spend on their own entertainment. He may have had a trip or 2 to LOS and discovered a world where he is truly alive. By now if he is smart enough he looks at the older guys and is no longer foolishly arrogant enough to believe it wont happen to him. By 35 if he has never been married he is not going to be so Ms office worker promoted by affirmitive action is left on the shelf.

When youth and love leave a woman
she takes offence at everything.
-Stendhal

Blue says:

I wouldn't trust a Thai any further than I can throw them or the police.

They are all thieving bastards. They even stole the The Saudi Royal families jewlery and thank fully the Saudis haad the sense to throw them all the thieving bastards out.

Only mixing ith Thais have I experiences theft on a grand scale.

My American friend was right. fuck and get em out because you don't pay them to sleep and if you happan to sleep you will be robbed.

Sorry but its true!!!!

Paul says:

So how come they didnt rob me when I went to sleep?or anyone I know, maybe we are just lucky?
As for trust I dont trust anyone, Thai or otherwise.A lot of dudes in LOS areent worried about being robbed of a pittance anyway, we were robbed on a GRANDE scale by our ex farang wives.

Pants Elk says:

As to trust/thievery: "a fool and his money are easily parted", right? Well, I am that fool. I habitually confuse Thai paper money colors (especially in the dim and often colored lighting of the, uh, the temples and pagodas and, uh, museums that I patronise), frequently spilling wads of the slippery stuff (paper money, that is, pay attention at the back) all over the floor, and never once have I been shortchanged or robbed. Once the mamasan of this temple, I mean the head monk or whatever she was, she brought me back way more change than I'd expected, telling me I'd mistakenly included a 1000 Tb bill in the bar fine, I mean, the offering.
Also, I've left the stuff all over my hotel room while entertaining the, uh, monks, and never had any of it nicked.
However, I have been mugged in NY, had my apartment broken into in London, and my car ripped off in Geneva. Not on the same day, you understand. Just speaking up here for the honesty of the local, uh, religious orders.

britidiot says:

i have just returned from three fabulous weeks in thailand , the first ten days were pretty much lonesome because i couldnt take a part-time girlfriend .
three months before my holiday i had decided to try a different approach to holiday companionship , i advertised in england through a website called " gumtree " for a female holiday companion to cater for all my male needs , i never expected a responce but to my surprise i recieved one reply from a 22 year old big busted blonde from canterbury , her name heather .
i explained that i would pay her flight and accomodation in return for personal company day and night - she accepted .
we met a couple of times prior to the holiday and got on well .
so i booked our tickets and accomodation at the yorkshire inn , patong beach .
heather is a 22 year old , educated , big busted 34dd . blonde hair .
she appeared to be open minded about sex but i think once again , i was being scammed .
she had no intention of fulfilling her verbal contract , she just wanted a holiday .
our holiday began on 2nd december when we arrived at patong beach , ide booked the first 5 nights at the yorkshire inn hotel in soi sansabai , opposite bangla road . a nice hotel .
by day 2 of our holiday , heathers negative attitude had pissed me off so much that i couldnt stand the sight of her and was making excuses to avoid any company with her .
on day 6 we were off to koh phi phi and i was dreading her stuck up attitude and her insulting opinions and comments about the bargirls in patong .
i had already booked 4 nights at arayaburi resort in koh phi phi .
luckily heather was off diving , so i didnt have to endure her pathetic smirks and self opinionated views about patong and my so called bad manners i.e. crossing my legs while seated .
her geek friends had given her advise about their previous holidays in thailand .
while we there , £60 went missing from my bag and i dont accuse any thais .
we left phi phi on day 10 and i had managed to talk heather into going on a 3 day trip to the similan islands on my expence .
i decided to find some company and toured the bars , i spotted a lovely looker and decided to have some fun .
the normal introduction, game of connect 4 , paid her 300baht barfine and took her short-time for an hour and it was great . i asked her if she would go long time with me for the next 8 days but she declined but asked me if i wanted her twin sister , we went back to her bar and she introduced me to her twin sister and her twin sister accepted my invitation , i paid her bar-fine in advance and we left .
on heathers return , i explained that my new companion was to escort me back to koh phi phi and i would find heather some alternative accomodation which was met by her irritating smirk .
i booked heather into a cheap guest house - she was not amused but i was .
my new companions name was FAN and we really built a good friendship , i think she is the most honest woman i have ever met .
she explained many things about thai girls and told me her sad story about how her mother died when fan was 15 years old and her fathers new wife had gambled and lost and her father had to sell the family home to pay off his new wifes debts .
FAN had to leave school at 12 years old to work on the farm with her family and at 15 years old was working in a factory in bangkok .
i really miss fan , we got on so well .

i am now sitting in my small room in my small house in kent,england .
the weather is very cold and i am wondering why i am here .i have returned to my depressing life in england and i dont want to be here any more . if i sell my house i will have about £20,000 equity , i know its not a fortune but i may be able to start some sort of business with fan .

can someone please advise me ???

Pants Elk says:

Don't.

Prufrock says:

britidiot
Re-balance those meds.

meister says:

Britidiot...

Want to buy some magic beans?

Common Sense says:

Britidiot,
You sure live up to your name. Slap some common sense into yourself.

philH says:

Britidiot,

Fucking hell, sorry mate, but if you're for real you are probably right up there in the world top ten gullible idiots.

Not only do you get scammed by a Thai tart, no problem with that so have many of us, but you then get scammed by a farang slapper AND a Thai tart in a double whammy.

Hey guys, how 'bout a prediction? How long do we think Britidiot's twenty grand will last in LOS. One point four mil Baht, let's see I reckon two months tops.

Derukugi says:

Fan wins the lottery...

BRITIDIOT says:

yeah , youre all right

i am a gullable idiot heading for disaster. years ago i predicted that i wouldnt live past forty , looks like my prediction might come true after all .

dead end job , no interest whatsoever .

lifetime mortgage .

stuck in a rut .

depression.

Pants Elk says:

britidiot, nothing wrong with bringing your money to BKK, and spending as much time as you can there. Just don't think any one girl is the answer to your problems (and that's easy advice to give, and harder to take, as I know to my cost.)
Yeah - travel a bit. Use your cash to be nice to yourself.

meister says:

For God's sake man! You feel worse after a move to LOS. I'd never reolocate there as I know I'd be shacked up with a couple of ladyboys, smoking yabba, by the end of the first month. Ruts look a lot better after that thought!

Common Sense says:

Pants Elk,
What the hell are you thinking encouraging this guy to sell his house and go to BKK. He's already on a one way path to B.A.S.E. jumping without the parachute. If he does this shit he's gonna be fleeced for everything in a month and have no job/home to return to in England. Then it's off to swan diving from cheap hotels for him. I guess we could get lucky though and he might land on you or Prufrock.

Oh what a what a wonderful day that would be.

britidiot says:

ive just got the " return home blues " i met a lovely girl named fan , 20 years old , lovely figure and we built a good friendship and i miss her .
she never asked for anything and we communicated well .
she never complained about anything and when i return for songkran i hope to meet her again .
we looked after each other , she sympathised when i told her about ning from nongkhai .
she is a good woman , she,s had to grow up quickly
take care fan

chris says:

can anyone help me find my ex-wife and her scheming brither in law ( stewart james parman sibley ) , last known address :- 20, village number 17 or 19 ,
seka subdistrict , nongkhai 43150 .

i know he will be up to something dodgy and at least one of you must know this area in thailand .

i know his two kids in england who he abandoned would like to know what he is doing .

and his sisters who he used to swindle money from .

my ex -wife ning ( sureerat wachirarat ) is an innocent party but they worship this man because he has provided money for his thai in-laws .

he and his wife ( siriporn wachirarat ) have land in seka and grow rubber trees and once attemted to keep ostriches but that business failed .

he could be in the pattaya area , his email address is fabtrade02@yahoo.co.uk

Tongue-Tied Danny says:

What's going on here? I'm confused.

Are chris and britidiot the same guy or is there some galt like imposter at work here?

chris ( britidiot ) says:

we are the same guy , my real name is chris , i am a 40 year old from kent in england . my video at top of page .

my wife was ning from nongkhai , i would like to know how she is doing ,
i would also like to know what her conman brother in law is up to ( stewart james parman sibley ) .

Anonymous says:

Chris, are you classified as educationally subnormal by any chance? And I do mean that in the most concerned way.

britidiot says:

why are you anonymous , have you got something to hide , i dont need wankers like you to be concerned about me .

mr sibley is digging his own grave , he thinks he is the king of nongkhai , his thai family describe him as a millionaire but his wife has the all the land in her name , once his new house is built , he will no longer be needed . i have contacted the thai authorities regarding his links to a paedophile

Paddy O'Ffialle says:

Lay off the guy, anonymous. OK he made a mistake.

But you have to realise how many normally sensible people start thinking with their balls once in the LOS. A long standing friend of mine is in the process of making a fool of himself over a woman he met in a barber shop while holidaying in Bangkok. He insists she is a "respectable" woman despite the fact that she wanked him off the day she met him and then slept with him the following night. When I suggested he should take it easy,do you think he paid any attention?

Tongue-Tied Danny says:

Good point Paddy, any man can lose his marbles over a Thai girl. It doesn't mean that you are subnormal in any way.

They are just so cute and so endearing that it can be difficult to imagine that they may have ulterior motives.

Any man who has played the field in LOS and claims that he has never got emotionally involved is a liar.

britidiot says:

dear paddy , we all have to make our own mistakes in this world to realise that we were wrong .
your friend will learn when she milks him dry.
my only purpose for making my videos was to expose a very bad man named STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY , who is living in seka in nongkhai .
this man assisted a paedophile ( his father ) to enter thailand and accompanied him throughout thailand .
he has also conned his own family out of alot of money , and abandoned his own two british children .
and he set me up in a scam marriage with his sister-in-law ( sureerat wachirarat ) and i lost alot of money .

and he drives around in a truck that i paid for and he lives a lazy life .
i want him deported from thailand .

Dicer says:

Chris,

Nowadays everytime I hear stories like: "Bruno is from Denmark, He married Nit from Chayapoum...who took all, all his money and called him a wiener aaaaand here is Bruno in person..." I say stop stop or (satop as they say) stop please.....

This does not reflect badly on you Chris...it's just that some of us have ODed on these stories.

Regarding your arch nemesis there is many an unemployed pistolero in Nong Khai always eager to do something if you know what I mean (wink wink). I also hear the Mo Piis in that region make really good wax models to stick pins in....so many choices.

BTW Chris I had a dream last night and saw an apparition. It was Cattallus that Roman rascal. He said he has something to say about Ning. So could I preety please send this verse on behalf of Cattallus to you on this very festive moment. I said no Cattalus Chris still likes Ning and he's not gonna like this, but the Roman knob insisted. He also said to do it before everyone becomes drunk and disorderly and turn to late night psychotropic drugs when the alcohol fails to make family members tolerable for one more day.

I think of Ning this New Year
One hundred arms around her neck
the Soi cat who slipped my clutch
for every man that little bitch.
In my seething fury,
I feel a constant hunger and poke,
Up through my boxers and my cloak.

My mutant, lovely, little tart
Pops to fifty rooms as the guest
For a scene with many acts in it
No intervals either! Quick this minute
Now, a Russian now a Brit.

Good luck to her, let her enjoy her lovers,
The whole three hundred that she hugs together,
Loving none truly, by grim repetition
Wringing them all sperm and cash-dry.

They can bugger her all I care
The whole lot of them on one chair
That Ning, she can fondle a deseased
leper and lick him anywhere he pleased.
I hope at last bitterer than the bitterest hellbore
When she can't find a man anymore
I hope she heads between her legs
to swig from her own foul dregs.

An honest woman would by now have kept
Her promise (a mutant hooker would never make it);
But, Ning greedily to accept
Money to seal a contract and then break it
Puts her below the grasping whore;
She pays the flesh that's haggled for.

britidiot says:

and heres a poem i wrote about stewart james parman sibley

MY NAME IS STEWART SIBLEY, I WROTE POEMS IN MY YOUTH,
I WANT TO TELL YOU A STORY , ITS HONEST AND THE TRUTH,
I USED TO LIVE IN HERNE BAY BUT I HAD TO GET AWAY ,
BECAUSE I OWE ALOT OF MONEY TO MY EX-WIFE AND THE C.S.A
I LIKE TO WRECK A LIFE OR TWO , ITS A HOBBY THAT I LIKE TO DO,
I PRETEND TO BE KIND AND SINCERE,I DONT SMOKE AND I HATE BEER,
I PRETEND TO HAVE NO MONEY,BUT I OWN LAND WHICH IS WORTH A MINT,
BUT PLEASE DONT TELL THE C.S.A. BECAUSE THEY THINK I AM SKINT,
I,M GONNA DO A RUNNER SOON,TO THAILAND,I CANT BE FOUND,
AND MY TWO BRIT KIDS WHO IVE NOT SEEN,WONT EVEN GET A POUND,
NOW THE BUNGALOWS SOLD,ITS NUMBER 5 ,
AND IN MY NEW HOME I WILL ARRIVE,
ITS HOT THERE,ITS QUIET BUT IT WILL DO,
BECAUSE I AM BARSTARD THROUGH AND THROUGH.

DEDICATED TO STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY,LIVING IN SEKA,NONGKHAI

Pants Elk says:

Thank you, Dicer, for that fragrant nosegay of poesie! I've had it tattooed on my bracket (just after the complete works of Marcel Proust) and I'm going to try it out on my next hooker hayride, while the bomb blasts softly underlight the pockmarked face of my chosen concubine. If that doesn't make her snap her string, it's back to date-rape ...

chris says:

i am very sorry to hear about the bombs in bangkok , this will certainly affect tourism .
message to the terrorists :- can you please plant a bomb under stewart james parman sibleys car .

Dicer says:

"Australian man killed after falling from 18th floor of Bangkok apartment. A 70-year-old Australian man fell from the 18th floor of an apartment building in Bangkok in what police believe to be a suicide. Police said Donald Henshall, 70, left a suicide note written with his blood and jumped from the balcony of his room on the 18th floor of the Nasa Vegas Tower in Suanluang district at 5:30 pm. The note says "I love you, Pim". Police found that the man had checked into the room about a week ago and stayed with a Thai woman, called Pim. The woman later deserted him. Police said Henshall apparently cut his own wrist and used his blood to write the note before plunging down from the room."

http://www.nationmultimedia.com/breakingnews/
read.php?newsid=30023095

Whether we OD on this type of stuff or not it keeps coming. I wonder does anyone know the Thai version of Eros? Does it wear an elf hat and a sneer?

I think I should pay a couple of out of job police generals and set up a special match fixer service.

Here it is:

We match up senile guys with village tarts. What they all need is someone to check for two things: level of dementia and two, probable longevity. This will save a lot of wrangling. And this is just on one side. We clear guys for tarts. Nuptial ready it is. Then for the geezers we give them some low down if they are still lucid as how to bargain (Cesar stuff) and an additional service would be:

We give a tart training house call (10,000) and extra tart makeover (7000)

YOU CAN ENJOY THAILAND...CALL US

YOUR TART GIVING YOU A BAD TIME...CALL US

PEOPLE SNEERING AT YOU...CALL US

WE ALSO SPECIALISE IN WITCHCRAFT. CALL US FIRST

UBER MOR DOO WILL FIGURE IT ALL OUT FOR YOU!!!

- We can cast a magic amulet (khawng-khlang) made in the name of your sneering tart known as khruang-rang, which will protect you when held in the mouth or on the body. Our expert alchemist will find stone eggs or meteoric ores specially suited to you and will mix them with seeds found in jack-fruit and tamarind plants which you will rub in your hands every time she starts sneering. This will cost you 2000 baht.

- For the tart that has the constant itch to shag anyone and anything including that soi feral we can do a phra-khruang, a Buddha figurine as a talisman carried around her neck. Our master dog psychologist will make her look up and tie it round her neck. 3500 baht.

- If you are concerned your tart will poison your food we can do the ultimate in khruang-pluk-sek. This powerful potion works erm like a charm hehehe... Here the potency of the spell will make the nefarious part of her brain numb. Our resident priest will show you how to do a Pali incantation to arouse the spell. Rather than thinking "kliat farang poison his food" the spell will make her pliant and horny towards you. 6500 baht.

- Ultimately for the scheming mother-in-law nothing would work except wan ya concocted by a shaman and we will show you how to slip it in her morning coffee. 8000 baht.

P.S. All the above methods are used very regularly by folks all over Thailand.

chris says:

its hard not to fall in love with a thai girl , most of them have their own beauty , most of them are so sexy , most of them are attractive .

but each one has a story to tell and usually a sad story about their upbringing .

when i take a bargirl , its normally for a week or longer and i get to know them and build a friendship .

i do love thailand but most of all the thai girls and i love the beaches and the food

chris says:

thankyou to everyone who left a comment , my thai wife meant everything to me but it was not to be and i have to accept that , i will continue visiting thailand and beyond and meeting various felines but she was always the special one .
to ning , i hope you are well , please dont trust stewart , he has lied to you and your family , his father sexually abused his own daughters .

chris maynard says:

i have recieved information that my ex-wifes brother-in-law ( stewart james parman sibley ) is operating a marriage scam business from his home in seka , nongkhai .
he is charging desperate thai girls extortionate fees to publish their profiles on FRIENDFINDER.COM
his initial fee to a thai girl is 10,000 baht for which he will construct their profile on the dating website called FRIENDFINDER.COM , he will also correspond on their behalf , exchanging emails with unsuspecting western men .
if a relationship is formed with a western man , he will ask the westerner to send money to support the thai girl , the girl must then pay him 70,000 baht .
if the thai girl is lucky to secure a marriage , the western man must then pay a dowry of 1,000,000 baht , stewart parman sibley takes his final fee of 700,000 baht and the girls family recieves 300,000 baht .
i recieved this unformation from a resident in seka,nongkhai who is digusted with stewart parman sibley .
this is a SCAM and i beg you decent people in thailand to put a stop to it .
i have contacted the british embassy and the thai police .
his name is STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY
his address is , 22 VILLAGE 17
SEKA SUB-DISTRICT
NONGKHAI 43150
THAILAND .

I CAN BE CONTACTED ON 07851263532

TANAI KWAI says:

"...the girls family recieves 300,000 baht."

Thanks, Chris -- at last, some GOOD news about Thailand isntead of all of the negativity.

This Stewart James Parman Sibley should indeed be contacted -- and given an award! How wonderful that he has devised a business model that provides needy Thai families with such a generous sum.

God bless you SJPS, my new hero.

Hip Hip

HOORAY!!!

chris says:

he may be providing the poor families with 300,000 baht but he does absolutely nothing like he always has and swindles innocent people out of alot of money . i dont know how you can agree with this SCAM .

Common Sense says:

Chris,
A fool and his money will soon be parted. He seems to be running just a cruder form of an internet marriage site to me. I bet he's got suckers like you lining up too.

chris says:

if you want to marry a thai girl and get ripped of for thousands , contact

STEWART JAMES PARMAN SIBLEY
22 VILLAGE 17
SEKA SUB-DISTRICT
NONGKHAI 43150
THAILAND

Common Sense says:

Nah chris, I'll leave that to you. I wonder if you'll prove the phrase true: Once bitten, twice shy.

Judging by the post on your last trip to Thailand, I somehow doubt it.

chris says:

dont be fooled by my last post , i play the game mate , after all thats all it is , A GAME
i had 5 women my last trip , i had a very sexy gogo dancer , and a few others .
and they all gasped at the size of my manhood

Andreas says:

Chris,
you may wish to inform FRIENDFINDER.COM about this person.

gaudiefreak says:

The best solution is to only shag poor illiterate, non-english speaking village girls from Isaan who are so socially disempowered that the very concept of 'legal (or human) rights' (taken for granted in western democracies) are well beyond their reach.

Then, when the 'sword has outworn the scabbard', or she gets herself pregnant (through nobody's fault but her own), and her tits are no longer the full tantalising bounce, you can quite easily (and economically) dump her - as have so many farang (or Thai) men done so in the past.

Afterall the bitches haven't got too much to complain about: They've got pussies they can always go fork at the nearest karaoke bar if things get too desperate.

Cheers, GF

ozricdan says:

As a big fat Yorkshire friend of mine once said. 'When you first meet them you think 'what a lovely, happy smiling bunch of people - but after you have been here a while, you realise what a lying, cheating, conniving, thieving bunch of bastards they really are'.
posted by..Fruit Batman

sorry, you forgot ignorant,loud,rude,selfless,hippocritical,dirty and barbaric.

if guys have to fuck bar-girls.........just fuck em dont marry them.

ning says:

you wanna see some naughty pics of me , i am ning from nongkhai , we can get to know eachother and i will look after your every need . my ex-husband was to easy and he give me everything to easy .

jollyboy says:

Chris, I symphathise with you, but if it was me I would have just kicked the guys fucking head in, dont end up in the nick over the bastard, next time i am Isaan I might give stewart sibley a good old head Butt and a kick in the Bollocks myself.

chris says:

theres an old saying

what goes around,comes around

stewart james parman sibley will use up all his resources and then be shunned by his thai vermin family

K says:

I'm a divorce lawyer from the USA and I got jacked over by my lovely Thai wife"cheating whore",after spending about 2 million baht on her and her family she was shagging another farang on my last trip to USA...now he and I are best friends..and we are both happy to be rid of the bitch....sound familiar?

WankerThaiAss says:

The facts are all wrong here. If this guy got a decent solicitor then he would not of had to pay out that much.

He was badly advised by a crap solicitor

WankerThai Ass says:

Is stewart james parman sibley any relation to Dwane Dibley

britidiot says:

All solicitors are crap .

they are the biggest con-merchants in this corrupted country , they charge excessive fees for sitting on their lazy fat arses and they dont give a shit if you get burned , either way they get their money .

a big thankyou to YOUTUBE , YOUTUBE is the best in the world and this rat infested pigsty otherwise known as thailand can go and fuck itself

Wombat says:

WankerThai Ass

Wasn't Dwane Dibley a favourite of the Red Dwarf crew?